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I need to know what you guys would do if a friend did this to you because I don't want to lose her as a friend but I am extremely hurt by what she did and have been told by everyone else that she isn't really my friend for doing that to me. My friend, or so I thought (we'll call her B), and I were supposed to hang out on Saturday. Her boyfriend was going to be there too but we were all cool. In fact, he suggested it. It comes to be Saturday and when she hasn't called me by 11:30 (we were going to get together at 11), I call her cell phone to discover she is in J-Town with her aunt (which is where her boyfriend lives so I know they'll pick him up before they come back) and that her phone is dying so she'll call me back when they get home. When she hadn't called five hours later I called her house and she answered and told me that she was grounded and couldn't do anything. Now I'm not stupid so I know that her boyfriend is already there and she is trying to lie to me but I pretend to believe her and call our friend and her boyfriend's cousin, H, and ask him if P is with B and he says "yes, and don't say I told you this but I refuse to lie to you. she called me about two minutes ago and told me not to answer the phone if you called and to lie to you and say P is at work and B is grounded if I did answer." Now H is a really good friend of mine, more my friend than hers. And the only reason she met P is because I took her with me to H's house and his cousin P is staying with him. So basically, my friend not only ditched me, but she also lied to me and asked a good friend of mine to lie to me. Also, she owes me $10 because I bought her and P lunch last week. Now she hasn't answered my phone calls at all since Saturday. So that's been two full days of being ignored by her. H thinks it is because she knows what she did was wrong and doesn't want to own up to it. But this girl is one of my best friends and we spend a lot of time together and it's our senior year in high school coming up. I don't have many friends and we were gonna rock the year away together, just the two of us (P already graduated, as did my bf). Our lockers are right next to each other and our parents are friends so it's not like I can avoid her but I don't know what to do. I thought she was a good friend until now. Help!~Cass