at what age would you like to marry
By nishurs
@nishurs (582)
India
29 responses
@adystanley (373)
• Romania
11 Jan 07
i wish to marry at 26 years old.until then, i will gain experience.
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@prasad1961 (5597)
• India
26 Oct 06
There is no landmark for getting marriage. It purely depends on responsibilities and economic conditions. Very few cases differ due to unforced errors dealt by both genders. Scientifically it is proven to be married at 18 for females and 20 for males.
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@Tanushree4444 (1275)
• India
11 Jan 07
for me its gonna be between 25 to 26. its the ideal time to get married for girls since they are more career oriented and wann give some time for it.
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@fujin1985 (684)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
for me, it depends. when i feel that both of us are financially stable already and know our responsibilities, i'll be ready at that point.
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@sailoffwithme (870)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Well 30 would have been a good target but I am all ready 47 an still looking and I have been talking with a few ladys but I am still looking. I guess it will happen when it happens I would really like to find somebody I can't live without but the older you get the harder it seems to find somebody else. Good luck!
@rachelcaron (1679)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I don't think one can really say what an appropriate age for marriage would be. I believe it depends on the couple and their individual situation and love for each other. I do believe people should be at least 18 years old though. But after that, I think it is entirely up to the couple. Some people are very mature at 20, while others need more time to grow up before getting married.
There are a lot of things to consider before getting married. I think it is very important that man and woman are sure they really love each other and have already established good communication. That is the key! It is important for them to really know each other - likes, dislikes, morals, values, ...
I got married when I was 24. I think that was a great age for me. Notice I say for me. I was ready and I truly loved my husband. I had no doubts. At 24, I feel I had some time before marriage for myself. I was able to finish my bachelors degree, travel, and live on my own a little. This time to myself helped me grow and learn more about what I wanted and didn't want.
I highly recommend that someone has some time to themself before marriage for this reason.
so, no, I don't think you can really say you have to be ___ age before you can get married. It just depends on the person/couple.
@CallMeDaddy (535)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I don't know if I was ready to get married at 25 but now that I'm pushing thirty I think I'm ready. Now I know that is not a big difference but I am in an entirely different place mentally than I was before. So therefore I now think that I'm ready to take that step.
@jglfan101 (155)
• United States
28 Jan 07
I am engaged. My boyfriend and I are getting married in October. I am 20 years old and he is 23. I think we are ready and mature enough to get married. We have been living together for almost 2 years now and we have been together for 3 years. I think that age doesn't really matter. What matters is that you are mature, in love, and ready for all the responsibilities that will come with being married. I definetly don't think you should rush into marriage. That is one of the reasons our divorce rates are so high. People think it's okay to get married after knowing eachother for 6 months. I'm not saying it's not okay but 6 months isn't really enough time to get to know someone. Maybe for some people it is but I know that I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I still find something new out about him.
@tamihan (113)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
at any age as long as I am stable financially and emotionally to start and live with my own family