Spam again

I don't blame you one bit. I stopped along time ago blindly taking on new friends. Now they have to have been here so many months and have to have over so many posts before I will even look at their profile. They will spam your PM and your comments on your profile. They are so rude it's not even funny.

Just plain RUDE. I hate that, I did it once but for my personal email. I met the guy in person though and he said he had some business opportunities for me...YEA he did like a thousand. Everyday maybe 4 or 5 times a day I reported him to Yahoo...he used another email address and I didn't want to change my email address to many important things attached to it. Yea I got sick of it so I switch email's finally and that was hectic. I should file a lawsuit against him for stress and whatever I can think of ;)

Oh - it happened to you again? If you are a member of other paid-to sites, spam them back saying I'll only take a look at your stuff if you join & are active. Hmmmm ... A SPAM FIGHT! A SPAM FIGHT! Now I'm picturing a strange pink meatball fight.

Good for you! I have the same experiences. I am willing to accept anyone as a myLot friend, provided they are active and not a cheater. But then, if they do something like that and start sending me spam messages, they get deleted quickly. The very first time it happened, no sooner was his(or her) spam message in my inbox than he was being deleted off my friend list. That's my only rule about being a friend: A am not asking you to solicit anything to me. If I ask, that's one thing, but if I didn't, then I shouldn't be receiving these messages.

I have only had one person send me something like that, but he did say hello with a friendly message so I didn't mind. I would be annoyed if they don't have a friendly message with it and they should only send it once.

Dont worry about it. you will receive different messages from different people.It is not a must that you have to take all the messages.You select dignified message and contiue to be friendly with the links....ok and just omit all unwanted spams.

Ah littlefranciscan, Don't take this too seriously. People who ask to be a friend somethimes think it is appropriate to send you invitations to this or that program. Remember, some people sincerely want to make friends on mylot, others see mylot as a way to increase their contact list and network. I just delete the messages and don't reply.

I know exactly how you feel..Its not only very annoying and frustrating it is rude..I accepted a friend, and next thing I know I got spammed..They got deleted straight away..Thats the first time it has happened and I honestly did not hesitate in deleting...I am here for the friends and discussions, not that sort of cr@p..

Yes, I hear there is a bit of this going around. I have had something similar only not quite as rude. You did the best thing you can do and that is to just delete them. It sends the loudest message, IMO. Hopefully, buy putting a message like this out there it will deter it a little bit.