How would u react when????????
By touchnshine
@touchnshine (2821)
India
August 7, 2007 12:18pm CST
Ok friends,
wanna ask you one question.......
If suppose
one day ur mom says............ instead of marrying a strange person why dont you marry to your best friend..... he/she knows you very well.......
you both share a comfort zone......you both know each and every thing bout each other
tell me friends....how would u react......
I mean......is understanding or knowing is well enough for two best friends to enter into such relation.....which we call marriage.....
now.....would like to have ur views......
let me ask my question once again
If ur mom...will say u 2... get married to ur best frien.......will u get ready to do the same if yes why and if not why
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6 responses
@helloravinder (433)
• India
8 Aug 07
IF you are having good understanding and you both like the company of each other it means that you both are having something special for each other. IN such a case you both can give atlest a thought to marry each other. In my opinion to start a new relation we need understanding and a soft corner for each other. So there is nothing wrong in marrying such a person.
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@kittensmommy (386)
• United States
7 Aug 07
First of all to be best friends with someone does not mean you love them that kind of marriage love,you know that chemistry that you have with the special other.
I have many male friends that I shared my whole life with , my secrets and all,but would never put up with them if we were married .But I love my husband , he became my best friend , and I put up with his worst actions,smells , habits and toughts ..oh boy.
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@nafeesa_mohd (281)
• India
8 Aug 07
i'm marrying my class mate.... i've been into so many relatiosnhips.... nothing lasted after i came to know the real color of the people i loved.... this guy, i've been with him in same class for four years and know his character, qualities and now i know his personal things like his family members, background.... when it comes to him, i always think like why i didnt have him as my first and only love in my life.... but then i console myself saying that god wanted me to meet those wrong guys before meeting this right guy so that i'll learn how to treat this nice hearted man with respect and make him happy....
@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
well no i will not get along with the idea if i don't like the best friend and if he doesn't want me..i dont think that is good idea..if i have to debate about this with my mom if ever i will..because i don't wanna be in trouble for he rest of my life.
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
Hi touchnshine! :) Your bestfriend and you might be sharing the same comfort zone but it's about love. It's about knowing what you feel inside and if you want each other to spend the rest of your life with. You and your bestfriend have the decision for that.
On your mom's part, just explain to her about you and your bestfriend's relationship. Actually, my mom also teases me to my guy bestfriend. But, I just smile and laugh at her. Tell her that we're just plain bestfriends and will not be more than that. We love each other as friends. Loving someone as more than a friend is a different level. :)
Take care and God bless! \(",)_
