Would you share all your secret with your partner or friend?
By carryli
@carryli (875)
China
August 8, 2007 3:00am CST
The deepest truth about yourself that might make you feel embarassed, then would you share it with your partner.
As about me, me and my partners are like best friends. We don't have anything that we don't know about eachother. So, we don't have anything to hide about.
I share everything with him and so does he. We are very cool about this secret thing.
But with friends there are many thing that I don't tell them. As you said too afraid that I' might be the subject of embarassment. So, I usually censor the things that I tell them and I ahouldn't tell them.
What about you?
3 responses
@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
8 Aug 07
I have one friend who I feel completely confident sharing everything with, even the most embarrassing things (and it's a male!). I do not share all my secrets with my husband. There is nothing BIG I keep from him but I don't tell him every little thing either. I guess after over 20 years of marriage, neither of us listen real well anymore. Important things, my husband knows. the little things, I tell my best friend or could if I wanted to share and wouldn't be worried about his reaction or his judgment.
In a way that is sad but I don't think many husbands and wives share EVERY secret. I could be wrong, of course, but I know my circle of friends don't share everything with their partners. (Like the fact that I forgot to pay the utility bill and the fact that I am not working but answering discussions here instead. Ha!)
It is great that you and your partner can share everything so openly.
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@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
I don't have such things as secrets because I tell everything to different people. I like sharing whatever is within me because it makes life happier. Embarrassing moments tend to lose their embarrassing feeling when shared with someone else because they will appease you and say "That's alright". And then you have someone else to laugh with. I don't think its nice to keep secrets because it makes your life miserable. You tend to be uptight with things and you seem restricted in a certain sense.
