Kids?

Even before my husband and I finally decided to get married, we have already planned to have two offsprings in the future; ideally one girl and one boy. We've been married for more than five years now and God has given us a loving daughter who is turning three next month. Honestly and without being a hypocrite, we don't take any contraceptive pills or any family planning method to control pregnancy and childbirth. I guess it's God's way of helping us to plan our own family and control our expenses, too. After all, we're not in a hurry to have another baby until next year. I have to admit that at present, we are still in the process of paying off all our existing monetary obligations with credit card companies, pawnshops, and other government and loan agencies. Personally, I really would like our daughter to know in the future that we took time to enjoy her childhood by having her alone for several years before having her younger sibling. I hope she'll learn to appreciate this, as I myself wasn't able to have this opportunity in my own life. I'm the eldest of four siblings and the gap between me and the sibling next to me is just eleven months. In addition, my husband and I would have more time earning and saving up for our children's education.

A would like as much as i could give them everything. At least 4 :-) I wanna have a big family. The best would be if my first chiled will be a girl. They are so cute and i think its easier if the girl is the older. But if the first will be a boy i wont be sad ;-) The most important thing is that no matter is it a boy or a girl just be healthy.

I just want only 3 or 4.Must be mixes of boys and girls.If the God want to give my wish of children!