This is the issue today
By Ms Michelle
@lenapoo (678)
United States
August 9, 2007 2:45pm CST
Well as some of you know I have a co-worker that feels that her man is cheating. Well she confronted the female and let her know that she felt she shouldn't be there when she wasn't home and the woman basically told her that she could come around whenever she felt like it. She had also confronted her BF and told him what the female had said and he said he never wanted things to get this out of hand. He only wants her as a friend and that was it. Even though I did not tell this to my co-worker, I strongly feel that the girl is interested in him in a way that he is not interested in her and that is why she is not respecting the fact that he is in a relationship. What do you think is the issue with this woman? Why do women do things like that anyway? Would you be over at a guy friends house that was involved with someone only when his girlfriend wasn't around?
3 responses
@isikopeacejohn (109)
• Uganda
13 Feb 08
Yah, that teaches you that never dump a guy when your bestfriend is his close friend... or else, they'll hooked together and show you what you've always feared to see.
Anyway, am not the kind of guy, so don't pin me...!
@lenapoo (678)
• United States
14 Feb 08
I guess that is true for some people and not so true for others. You never really know who your true friends are sometimes.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
9 Aug 07
if it was my co-workers boyfriend i wouldn't do it. if i was friends with the guy and the girl then i might be at the guys house, but strictly as friends and only if my friend was also comfortable with it. i think the boyfriend needs to step up and tell this girl he isn't interested and to stop coming over when his girlfriend isn't there. If he can't do that then i would be suspicious of him also.
@lenapoo (678)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Exactly an that is why I told her to look out because she had spoken with him about it an he made it seem as though it really wasn't a big deal. I honestly think that something is going on or will soon be going on.
@callaofamily (10)
• United States
9 Aug 07
It sounds like she likes giving this women a hard time because she sounds full of herself.I think they act this way because the are self-centered and they think they look that good they can mess with someone elses man! Heck no, and as far as I am concerned, the man should no better and tell that lady to stay away. why is he even allowing her to come over to begin with?
@lenapoo (678)
• United States
13 Feb 08
I think that this is true. An I feel like if he is letting her come over and feels that she shouldn't be upset about it he is telling her in so many words that something is going on or will be going on.
