why is it so hard to love?

Love? you can only defined it once you've experienced it, (i guess). Loving someone becomes hard if we are not able to love unconditionally. Unconditional love for me means loving someone without expecting to be loved in return because being loved comes naturally as they go along. Just do want you can when you love no matter the result is you can say I give my best shot in loving you!

if love is hard,if love makes you tired ,and if love makes you can't see the future,love is not love.so when you have too many puzzles of your love,i suggest you to stop loving to think about both of you.who is selfish,who doesn't love the other,and who is not honest.if he don't love you any more ,don't be doubt,do waht you should.change an other love is not bad.

Hard to love? Because we hard to know who is our true love!

Take it easy. Love is simple. If you first boyfriend is your Mr.Right, you will think you are lucky, then you will think why I have no chance to make other boyfriends? If you can't find your Mr. Right after making some boyfriends, you will think how lucky those girls who can find their lovers. Don't you know you are lucky, too? What is love? someone can understand it although she/he is only 20 years old, but someone can't understand when she/he is over 40 years. So it is a good process to let you know what is love, then you must cherish the lover that you get. Good luck, girl.

It is not hard to love. Just be selfless so it won't be hard for you. Try to understand your love ones side why he is like that. Just be patient for the answers and you will see. Do not wait for him to work on it. Help him through motivating him to do such things. Guide him on what will be your plans. Don't give up easily. Be creative in loving someone. :)