why do i have to agree all the time to what my bf say!

You must have your own personality, then you can stay together for a long time. I don't agree all what my boyfriend say. Sometimes we have to quarrel with each other about little things, and my friend tell me that it is not necessary to refuse him, because it will affect our relationship. If I accept all his opinion, What I am? A pet? I think he must throw me away someday, becasue he will be boring with a docile pet. I like people with their own personality, so I have no right to give up my personality.

Yes why can't you?. Are you not an adult with a mind of your own? Has he always been there to tell you what to do?If you can not do as you wish who is stopping you? If you fear for your relationship then you are in the wrong one. It is not about who is in control or in charge in a relationship but rather mutual respect for each other.Some one that is immature is fearful, insecure,and not able to make decisions on their own. or if it is a controlling relationship you are never allowed to make a decision, you are told what to do and how to do it perfectly. None of these relationships are going to work. You were given a mind to use and if you have given that away, what do you have? Is this the way you want to spend the rest of your life? Only you can answer these questions and only you can change the way things are. Hoping wishing and praying is not going to work, Understand that you are a person who has rights and now go out and take control of them.

Nowdays more and more boys like girls of independent thinking instead of traditional docile and obedient girls. So I don't think girls should agree with whatever their boyfriends say. If your boyfriend is the kind of person who likes to force you to do what pleases him and neglect your feeling, I can say that he is no reliable man! Certainly, you can do whatever you want to do only make sure not to hurt others!