When you marry?

China
August 10, 2007 8:47pm CST
I have a different opinion with my boyfriend on marriage. He said he will marry me when we have our own house and job.We live on our own. But I don't think we should marry when we are too old.^~^ So, what will you choose? 1-------marry each other before you are 30 years old 2-------marry each other when everything is settled ' ' ' Or you can leave your own opinion to me! Thank you!!
2 responses
• United States
11 Aug 07
If you really love each other it shouldn't matter. I don't know your whole situation, but for me, I wouldn't want to bewed until our finances were stable or close to it.
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• China
11 Aug 07
sure, I agree. But when we are old, maybe we don't have the mood to celebrate. Thank you for your answer!
• United States
11 Aug 07
I was once told that it is never the right time to get married, never the right time to buy a house and never the right time to have a baby. Everything will always work out the way they are supposed to. Life is too short to wait for the right time for anything. I was married, had my first child and owned our first house before I was 30. Now at 35, 3 kids later and our second house - things are still not perfect (for lack of a better word) but we are happy and if I could do it all over again those things I definitely would not change (of course there are other things I would if I could)...Don't rush into anything but don't spend your entire life waiting for the right or perfect time...it may never come...Just my opinion...
• China
11 Aug 07
Oh, yes. Life goes on, we have to face all the problems together. And that should be cherished. Thank you for your opinion, well , thanks!!