unconditional acceptance!
By jbrooks0127
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
United States
August 11, 2007 1:07pm CST
Are you the kind of person that has unconditional acceptance? Do you try not to judge others until you know them or do you find that difficult?
As for myself I cannot judge anyone until I know they deserve to be. There is just part of me that will not let me do it. In so doing I have found that most all people have a good and decent side to them even if they are having a bad day.
So what about you?
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@sunshinecup (7871)
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11 Aug 07
Well I judge everyone as a threat when I first meet them. It's nut I know, but they would never know this. I treat everyone with respect until they ruin that respect with their actions. However I am very on guard until I really get to know them.
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@sunshinecup (7871)
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11 Aug 07
Darn I wasn't finished, LOL.
Now on the other hand, I accept anyone for who they are, it makes no diffrence to me. I live my life the way I feel is right and I don't want anyone insulting my choices, so I would never do that to them.
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
16 Aug 07
LOL..Thank you sunshine for your comments. I have been what i call a shy person for most of my life. So I know where you are coming from.
However for me only a persons actions or words cause me to loose respect.
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
14 Aug 07
I have conditions. Conditions to go with my taste and nature. I can accapt others right to do what they want to do. When it comes to confront with me I must disclose my likes and dislikes to enter into a consensus. Otherwise, why should I call me I?
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
17 Aug 07
It is true that we all must follow the beliefs that make us who we are and let no one call that wrong. But to look at others and expect them to believe the same as we do is judgemental.
It is almost human nature to do this in one form or another but there is a big difference between feeling it and expecting it.
I do understand your comment and thank you for responding.
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