A child can change the view of one's life.....

i totally understant your situation. Although i don't have a baby,but i experienced this situation as auntie. Since my eld sister's daughter was born,she became the core of our family. i saw her grow up bit by bit.when she smiled,we felt happy too.when she cried or illed,we felt upset. we began to think how to education her,how to make her a bright future and so on. Those questions we never thought before she was born. And becuase of those,i am very careful about my marriage.i would get married before i am well prepare in both soul and body. All in all, i still think having a baby is a very happy thing in one's life.

This is absolutely correct. Before marriage or before the birth of a baby normally people are not concerned about the future that much. In my case my brother now changed his view about life. Now he is so much conscious about hte baby's future and all. Really he changed a lot

This is so true! When I had my kids my life certainly changed, my world became their world and I dedicated so much time to them, always putting their needs first. I began to see the world in a different light and just wanted to protect them from everything bad and dangerous and make sure I could provide them with a stable upbringing. Luckily, they have grown into very happy teenagers, with their own minds, they take responsibility for their own actions *most of the time* and I am so proud of them. There is no better gift than being a proud parent. I hope you have lots of fun in the future, they grow up so quickly:0)

A child can definitely makes a difference in people's lives. I'm really happy for you for having your daughter, I know even just by your words how much you love her. She's a pretty lucky girl.