how to get along with your boss?
By lisa_wxy
@lisa_wxy (393)
China
August 12, 2007 12:43am CST
well, i am a little shy girl,sometimes i feel nervous to get along with boss.
i don't know what topics i should talk except work. but as my job is HR,and what i have to do is to handle the relationship between our staff and our boss.
my boss is a man,about 38years old.he is very handsome and extroverted,he likes going to the bar and drinking beers.he is very smart. everytime i saw him,i know he was kind,but i am still at a loss.i don't know why?
can you give me some suggestion to conquer this situation? i really need .
3 responses
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
13 Aug 07
It is difficult for me to get along with my boss. Now I quit my job, becasue I don't know how to get along with my colleagues and boss.
HR, what's it? You have to work with your boss everyday? First, take it as a stranger in your heart, then begin to know him without your personal feeling. I think you will know him very well and the most important is not losing yourself. Remember, he is your boss, and you are his stuff.
Good luck.
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
15 Aug 07
thanks for you advice.
HR means human resource.
yes,my work is mainly including communicate and coordinate.
it is not a productive,just a supportive department.
I don't need to work with my boss everyday,but to me ,i have to understand my boss ,then i can work better.
@leocravensky (77)
• Singapore
12 Aug 07
Hi there, I guess you are feeling something towards him? Hehe, just take things easy, break the ice like asking him how is his day, or have he eaten if its just after lunch hours.
Find some common interests that you 2 can talk about, be it religion or hobbies. Well if your too shy to break the ice, you can try practising it with the mirror.
In the worst scenario, just wait for him to come to talk to you, but I'll not know how likely will that be.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
13 Aug 07
If he looks like Keanu Reeves then I might faint for sure...but before it happen I'll make sure that I will give best performance and would make my Boss impressed me...Always think that he's is your Boss and you need a job badly that you would do your job well...If he asks you something not related to your work then that's a good start then...hehehe good luck.
