when you have questions or de in trouble,whom do you ask advices to first?

I will go for the related principal/party of the problems for advices and solutions. And will never tell to any unrelated party. My experienced, if I tell my problems to unrelated party; 70% will laugh and the remaining 30% will ignore. Reactions only can be obtain from the related party and they are helpful.

When I was still single I usually got advices from my parents and sister. After I had married I then ask advices from my husband. He always tries his very best to assist me. By far, I feel that he is the one who takes the greatest care of me.

Usually I will ask advices from my husband, parents and friends. Because they are important people for me and they can give me helpful suggestions.

When I'm in trouble or got serious complicated questions, I usually sort it to my coach which had become a friend. Sometimes to my mom when we can have the time to talk. Got different busy lives. I am with a club that I can see my coach once in a while. Well, many times, I talk it out on forums or discussions like this and learn from anyone for any opinion. Sure, it helps as well.

To me, i will ask my younger sister.Because she is my first one who i can trust in.And she also will try her best to help me.But if i have big problems,i will ask my mother,she always solves any of my problems.

Depending on what the situation is determines who I ask for help and advice. I try and look for someone that I rescpect that has been thru a similar experience. Sometimes asking more than one person helps to get different opinions. I try and learn from other peoples past experiences. I always turn to my siblings, parents, good friends, son, and boyfriend.