Hopelessly in love

Well if your anxious enough, you can just go to Alaska and find him there.. But I think its not appropriate that you chase him to Alaska and I don't think you will do that.. :) don't you? hmmm.. It's really a mixed feeling when you wait for someone especially the one you love to come back.. But you can't do anything really but to "wait" .. I'm in the exact situation as you and your boyfriend does. My gf is waiting for me to come back home since we are miles away because i was forced to study to some place miles away from her. I really want to go back but with my schedule and responsibilities in school, its just definitely not the right time to go back.. after the semester maybe.. I think you just have to wait and understand your boyfriend. I think he wants to be with you too but he's just too pre-occupied by maybe his work or whatever things.. Patience pays off you know. :) best of luck!

I guess when we are in love, we are so into it, tts why its called falling in love... I guess maybe u can drop him a hint as regards to when he would be visiting... Or tell him directly that... U missed him and u wanna see him soon and when will he be dropping by... Let him know you are anxious to meet and he shouldnt be keeping u waiting for so long... =)

Been there, done that. I know the feeling. In my case my fiance (we are engaged now but we weren't then) put us off because of everything; taking care of a sick friend, ex-wife being an idiot, just want to protect you from my crap... I told him again and again that the crap wasn't going to stop, and that I didn't need to be protected. When his daughter had a near-fatal car accident, he realized I wans't kidding, and we started our life together EVEN IN THE MIDST of his crap. I HELPED HIM deal with it!!!! I did it by letting my then boyfriend, now fiance, know that no matter what was up in his life, I would help him cope. I don't know if your boyfriend just doesn't want to commit, of if he is trying to "protect" you from something. Tell him you don't need to be protected, and that love endures all, but only when you're together.