Do you INVITE responses?

@ZenDove (698)
United States
August 14, 2007 1:47pm CST
Do you extend personal invitations to certain members to respond to certain discussions, whether you started them or not, just because you'd like to get their take on a matter? I sometimes find myself wondering, "Hmm, I wonder what so-and-so would say to that?" I wouldn't want to be presumptuous or to slight any other member who might have responded, but I've wondered about it from time to time. I was invited once through private message to respond to a discussion that I hadn't seen yet and that was started by someone who wasn't on my friends list. So, I would have probably missed the discussion all together. What do you think? Have you extended such an invitation or have you ever received one?
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
14 Aug 07
No, I haven't received any and haven't extended an invitation either. I never thought to do it this way actually. I don't see any problem with it. Especially if it is not on my friends list, I may miss it and would have actually liked to participate.
@sunshinecup (7871)
15 Aug 07
Yes I have done that before, for the reasons you suggested also to see if it was just me taking something wrong or misundertanding what the poster was saying.