Path of Self-Destruction
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
United States
August 15, 2007 8:15pm CST
Why do some people live their lives in such a manner that they are doomed to be miserable for eternity. They act in ways that make people dislike them. They use words that sting like a slap in the face. They wonder why they are alone.
3 responses
@pithy_preacher (66)
• Tonga
16 Aug 07
sometimes these people are alone and do not know how to deal with it. some people use verbal assault as a means of attack before being attacked as that is all they know.
what we forget is every person we deal with has years of history that could include abuse. So how you respond is different from someone expecting to be slapped.
life is difficult to predict, and sometimes we expect everyone to react the way we would. that does not happen.
sometimes we just need to bite our tongue and take a step back before answering.
God bless
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
16 Aug 07
My tongue is sore from biting it. The person I am referring to always says "no", never gives someone a chance, is negative, and hard to get along with. I tell him repeatedly that he is destined to be a lonely man. It falls on deaf ears.
@pithy_preacher (66)
• Tonga
16 Aug 07
is this a personnel friend or a mylot friend?
i am sorry that you are feeling beat on this.
If it is mylot please PM me.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
16 Aug 07
I don't know why some people act like this. My husbands ex is just like you describe. It will all come basck to haunt her eventually.
The best way to deal with this, is to simply have nothing to do with people like that. But that is easier said than done.
Take whatever action you can, like we are, with our current situation.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
16 Aug 07
This is particularly hard when the person is someone who is close to you.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
16 Aug 07
Some people don't have the sense God gave green apples, Elusive. We cannot expect them to behave normally because they don't know what normal is. They don't even realize that their offensive mannerisms turn people off. Basically, they are selfish and uncaring of other's feelings. I wouldn't waste my time worrying over them. That's for sure.