Is gossip unavoidable? Are there people not talking about others?
By buchi_bulla
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
India
August 16, 2007 5:24am CST
I feel all of us in some time or other, talk about others or indulge and participate in gossiping about others. At least we will be staying in the place, while topic about others is going on. Are there people who do not talk about others? Is this possible?
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@firumon (501)
• India
16 Aug 07
Hi dear,
what a question..
Only time pass is that... We can laugh too much and make our mind tension free through this.. But it has somany problems. Its on other side.. It can see more in ladies.. There are somany comedy seen i have seen in movies.. Creating gossip is very simple and easy... And its spreading is very fast... I am using this occasion to write one of my college experience.. Once i am forced to take leave from college for three day because of my one cousin's marriage.. I have told these to some of my dearest friends and also invite them for marriage.. On the first day of my leave at morning about 10.30 one of my teacher have called me and asking that have relief in pain.. I asked "pain, what pain"... Then she told that she had heard that i have fall in bathroom.. I again asked her who told it.. She said my class mates...
So look, how that gossip have created and within no time teacher have called me... So look the power of gossip.. I replied the actual thing why i take leave.. This is the world...
All are better than others. I am not saying that i am a good one. I am also like this.. We really enjoy this..
One another day my another friend have not reached the college.. He take leave with out any information... So we spread the gossip that, that day was his engagement... This are the things going on..
But ladies are better for this field.. Boys creates fun gossips.. But ladies say that 'he was that'
'i saw him with her'
'he is fraud'
'i know her before'
some thing like this..
When we watch this all from outside, all are best jokes and fun..
Its too much friend, i am stopping... Thank you....
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
17 Aug 07
You are correct. When we say one thing, it goes round and round and finally it comes to us only with the matter completely different. Then we have to think that earth is round.
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@p_vadla (1685)
• India
18 Mar 08
Yes, gossip can not be avoided.There may be people who do not gossip or do not talk about others but atleast they do talking to themselves with one aspect or the other.Ofcourse whatever the internal talking that goes on within a person is not termed as Gossip!and we call them with different names.
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
29 Mar 08
You are right. We cannot avoid the thoughts that are created in our mind, the moment some gossip is told by others. But it is harmless.