CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME?

Sri Lanka
October 26, 2006 10:03am CST
My marriage is cancelled bcoz i lost my trust on him. But he keeps disturbing me. What can i do to avoid him.
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5 responses
sweetie88
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
26 Oct 06
Do n't respond to him. Neither attend his calls nor be in contact with him by any other way.
lalitha4u
@lalitha4u (369)
• Sri Lanka
27 Oct 06
Thankyou for ur response.
lalitha4u
@lalitha4u (369)
• Sri Lanka
27 Oct 06
He keeps on smsing to my mobile. He finds out my mobile number somehow through someone.
flte74
@flte74 (876)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Do not take his calls, if he comes over do not answer the door. And let family and friends know what is happening in case he gets violent. Please be careful.
lalitha4u
@lalitha4u (369)
• Sri Lanka
26 Oct 06
Thankyou for ur response.
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flte74
@flte74 (876)
• United States
26 Oct 06
You are welcome! I am sorry u are going through this.
terriann
@terriann (4450)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I guess you could not except any calls from him, and try to not talk to him, and you can have a restraining order put on him, I'm really sorry for you, hope everything works out with you.
lalitha4u
@lalitha4u (369)
• Sri Lanka
28 Oct 06
I have told him so many times not to disturb me. But he never understands me. He says to be atleast a good friend. But i dont want to have any kind of relationship. Just help me out.
catchsharad
@catchsharad (1326)
• India
27 Oct 06
how exactly does he disturbs you. take help of your parents or his parents. otherwise you can also approach the police if the matter is serious. hope you get out of this soon!
lalitha4u
@lalitha4u (369)
• Sri Lanka
28 Oct 06
I cannot tell the police as he is my relative. He keeps on mailing me and smsing me. what can i do. If i change my mobile number he finds it out from someone.
gjains
@gjains (90)
• India
27 Oct 06
It is the time to introspect yourself.You know you better. If the reasons were so strong because of which you lost your trust in him then its almost decided to know to ponder on this issue anymore. Just say him calmly then that you are extrememly sorry to him and can not be with him anymore. On the other hand encourage him that he will definitely find someone else with whom he will develop a great trustworthy bonding. Hope it will help you. My apologies if my words were violent to you. Regards
lalitha4u
@lalitha4u (369)
• Sri Lanka
28 Oct 06
I have told him so many times but he never understands me. He disturbs me alot. Dont know what to do. He finds out my mobile number if i change it. He is my relative so cant do anything. Just help me.