getting over

I don't think you'd really forget someone nor the feeling. You just simply mature or understand and accept that things just can't be. This isn't like those in books or movies though when broken hearts cause revenge or something with an exciting plot. *LOL* It's reality, you just sooner or later accept and you're glad he was part of your life (unless the relationship was too traumatic ~ I'm talking about relationships which don't really go the way we expected them to be). You do feel a slight or faster beating of the heart or some sigh moments. But this isn't due to the fact that you love him still. I guess it's the reminiscing the past, the what ifs and could've beens. But at the end of the day, you realize it simply just can't be and you go on with your life still hopeful that someday someone would stay rather just spend a moment with you. A friend once told me, life isn't like the movies (though people perceive it as it is) love need not have a lot of dramas (fights scenes, crying moments, chivalry and such) to call it true love. You just know it when it's upfront and asking for you to spend a lifetime trying it out. Marriage indeed is a vocation and not a partime job you can just quit when things go wrong. You need to decide well and stick with it. A doctor doesn't open the patient up and quit in the middle if it's difficult, he looks for ways to solve the dilemma.