My son-in -law is a LOOSER...NO HOPER...DUMBA$$ and all round OXYGEN THIEF.....

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Yep no need for you to guess it, i HATE him with a passion..... My Daughter has been with him for a little over a year and fell pregnant about the 4.5 month mark. He started off decent enough, he had a job but was on holidays at the time, work never stared again and its all gone down hill from there. The whole way through her pregnancy he has done nothing but run up the bills and drink constantly and smoke pot, he only works when its not raining and only gets $100 a day and dosnt pay tax(and its winter here now). He refuses to get a fulltime tax paying job "as he's got plenty of work". To add to this he has spent maybe $100 on buying things for the baby, my daughter and i have done it all as he told her to "wait until you have it". Imagine bringing a baby home to no baby furniture or clothing, nappies ect. We went op-shopping and have spent maybe $400 and got her everything she needs except for a brand new cot and mattress than my mother bought for her. My daughter was having contractions over a 2 day period so dumba$$ goes and gets blind drunk, i then had to take them to the hospital with him carring on like the idiot that he is all the wayand until he finaly fell asleep on the hospital floor. 2 days later my daughter is still having contractions and because there was no money in the bank he chucked a sulky like a 2 yr old and wouldn't help her or even acknowledge that she was there (the power was going to be cut off that day as he hadnt paid it properly for 5 months and didnt stick to any agreement with the power company.)He would go from one extreme to the other he was either all over her on no where near her. He dosnt and hasnt showered of days on end and hasn't as long as he's been with her ever used or owned a tooth brush. After 2.5 weeks of contractions she finally had to have a C-Section birth. I now have a beautiful grandbaby girl 12/08/07. He is now telling her that she's a bad mother as she lets the baby cry for a few minutes while she struggles to get out of bed, also that she's not breast feeding her properly. OMG like hes got boobs and and all the knowledge. I cant stand him, he makes me so angry and i am missing out on my daughter and grand daughter because all i want to do is smack him one. If it was just me who thought he had a problem i would think 'ok it just a mum wanting better for her child' but all the way through the pregnancy even their friends have had words with him and told him to get his act together. He told my daughter that he is "partying now as when the baby comes he wont be able to do it anymore". He promised her that now the baby here he will only drink on special occasions and wont smoke pot, so much for the promise, baby was 3 days old and he was smashed. I dont know what to do as i find it so hard to keep my mouth shut, when i have seen my daughter this week he hovers around and i cant help but be annoyed. My daughter complains to me about him but then tells me she does love him and when he's sober he's a nice guy and he's now trying to do the right thing, excuses excuses. Have you ever been in a situation like this, how did or do you deal with it. I dont want to lose time with my daughter or grandbaby but i just cant stand him..