How will you describe your sister?
By sanju21
@sanju21 (135)
United States
August 16, 2007 11:41pm CST
For me my sister is one of the most caring and loving person who is always there for me whenever I need so.She is the key motivating factor behind my success in life.Without her support I couldnot have acheived whatever I have till now.So I believe that sisters are the best buddies that God can gift you .Do you believe in this?
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9 responses
@deepika_mona (1338)
• India
17 Aug 07
As sister love one sister can only understand as my sis it very loving caring n helful as we are same in everthing so we both have everything same for us as she is sometime like a freind to me and i shares all my things as well as tlkas to her as many time we fights also but infact from fight itslef the love grows
so wht u say about your sister
@gncd1968 (49)
• United States
17 Aug 07
My sister is very special to me, she was born 19 years after me, after 3 brothers in between and we have one older brother (6 of us in all). She was born 4 days before my birthday and the same year I graduated from high school. She is very special because as a young girl, I always wanted a little sister and prayed to God for one and he finally answered my prayers, don't ever believe God doesn't answer them, he does, in his time. It's funny my sister is the total opposite (physically) then me. I am 6'1" and weigh alot more then her, I am not the best looking girl and my sister is 5'2" and weighs maybe 115 pounds and is extremely gorgeous. But I am so proud of her, not jealous at all. I love her and Thank God For letting her be my sister!!!!
@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
17 Mar 19
My sister is my partner in crime, sorrow and laughters.
@tdl617 (34)
• United States
17 Aug 07
the best way to put it, if my sister wasnt my sister, i would have nothing to do with her, we are both in our 20's, we each have kids, but i truly have nothing in common with her. she is a nosy little tattle-tale, even now, my younger brother got a speeding ticket and didnt want our dad to know, as soon as she found out she called dad at work to tell on him. she's in her 20's and she acts like a little kid. i cant talk to her without her givin her brutal opinion, she tries to give me parenting advice, i have her kids along with mine 80% of the time and she tries to make me a better mother, right. anyway, some sisters dont have that best friend, girls forever type of thing.
@daofengscar (49)
• China
18 Aug 07
My sister is very vice and she has have a baby-girl.my little daughter-inlaw,she is beautiful too,i love them.
@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
14 Mar 19
I don't have a sister but my brother means a lot to me. And I can vouch on sisters love as I see my two daughters growing up. They can not stay peacefully but can't be separated.
@RendiRed75 (113)
• United States
17 Aug 07
Well, I see that there are quite a few here who adore their sisters. I think that's great, and I almost envy them. For me, I can't say the same for my own sister. She is older, and I really believe that she never truly forgave me for dethroning her as daddy's little girl, the baby, the princess. I have tried at various times to have a relationship with her, but she never seems to get herself together enough to be that kind of good friend, good sister, etc.
While I was growing up, finishing high school, etc. she was was already on her own (sort of), with a child, and many problems of her own. She stopped having time for me when she reached the age of 13. I always adored her and wanted so much to be close to her, but that wasn't what she wanted.
Then, about a year ago, she came back into my life. I was happy to welcome her with open arms, yet it seemed like I was being called on mainly to help her. I didn't mind, as she is a kidney patient, and I was making sure she would get to each dialysis appointment and going over to spend time with her if she wasn't feeling well. I would gladly have continued. Then, she moved, so I saw less of her, but she continued to come around. One day, she called me crying, telling me that she was about to lose one of her utility services. I immediately told her to come get some money, even though I didn't have much to spare myself. From that point on, she avoided me like the plague. I then saw what she saw me as. Nothing more or less than someone who would do for her whenever she needed or wanted. To me, the money wasn't the issue, and still isn't. Yes, there were times when I could have used that money, but my husbanad and I always do okay with or without being paid back. So, I learned a hard lesson, and in some small way the money that I "loaned" to her was the best investment I have ever made. I have one more toxic relationship out of my life, I suppose. I guess that would be the most positive way to view it.
To me, though, the real sisters in my life are not the ones I share blood with. They are the friends that I have made over the years, the ladies who have TRULY been there for me, stood beside me, sometimes holding me up. They are the ones who supported my dreams, cried with me through disappointments, and celebrated my achievements. They are women who have never turned their backs on me, never used me for their own gain. So, these ARE my true sisters, and I thank God every day for them.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
My sister is sweet, and simple. She's not too pretty but she's witty.
We've been closed since we got married. She used to give things to my kids especially shirts, shoes or school supplies.
I'm so thankful I have a sister like her.
@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
17 Aug 07
I very much believe this. My older sister was my rock for a long time and she taught me so much about life. My younger sister is my best friend in the world and I love BOTH so much. They care about me in ways no one else does and they know me in ways no one else does. We share things I wouldn't share with anyone else and we have all the memories of a lifetime to discuss and laugh and cry over.
We have had some rocky time, mostly when our Mom was critically ill and then when our Dad was in much need of lots and lots of help but we got through it and both have passed on now and we sisters are all we have. I am blessed to have them, true, real friends who don't pull any punches and who will really tell me if I look fat in a certain dress! lol.