should I warn him?

Ladybug565 this is a tough one, if you warn your friend that what he is doing will eventually cause him to fall then you will have put yourself in the way of the other friend resulting in her being angry with you. Sometimes its best to stay out of the situation so that you won't have to be in the midst of confussion. I understand that you care about them but I have a freind that got in the middle of a situation and ended up losing both her friends. If you feel that you must say something then its best to give sublte hints so that if it does come out that you knew then he can't say that you didn't give out a hint that something was wrong with the situation at hand. Hope this helps ladybug565.

Tell the friend who is setting him up not to, or you'll tell him. If that friend refuses, then you tell the friend who is being set up.

I think if it was my friend I would warn them , by doing so you may keep more than one person from getting hurt.

Let's face it: These two friends are both individuals with minds of their own. They will do what they want no matter what you say or do. If you get too involved, this could backfire on you, and you could lose two good friends that you seem to care alot about. Sometimes, the less YOU know, the better. In my opinion, I would take each aside and say my piece, tell them each that you care about them and you don't want to see either hurt or to mess up. Give your bit of advice. To one: tell them you think that they would do better not setting up a friend if they value the friendship. To the other: tell them that they would do best by keeping themselves out of trouble. Then, back off. You've said what you need to say. If they don't listen, the choice is theirs and theirs alone. The best thing you could do in that instance is to just BE THERE for them when they mess up. That's what a real, good, true friend does anyway. They try to save you from doing things that will hurt you, but they are also there when you take a fall. Good luck, I hope everything is okay for you all.

Wow I hope I am not too late with this one.. I would talk to both of them and tell them that you don't agree with what they are going to do and then Pray...

You should tell the friend who is setting up the other that he should not do it, because it is not very nice. Furhter there is not much you can do, maybe you could also tell him that you are going to warn the other friend

This is tricky. I know a lot of people are saying that you should tell your other friend not to set him up, but if what he is doing indirectly affects her, than it is not very fair for him to continue to do what he is doing. Telling him to stop what he is doing may not do any good - he must know that what he is doing is wrong, and he is still doing it. But maybe you could point out that what he is doing is affecting other people. I don't know. My first instinct would be to stay out of it.

See, if you are a true friend, you have the complete responsibility to save your friends from any trouble. You should take all the measures to help them out.

you know it is bad to advise to do something. but you can tell him but not to do more than once.