what do you do when you know people around you are angry with you?

Apple,If people are judgeing you because of a life still choice or the way that you conduct yourself then find out what their problem is.How does it effect them? Are you ignoring some responsibility that has a direct impact on their life? If the answer is no,Then I'd say ignore them or share your point of view with them.

It is a fact of life, applecart, that one cannot change another's feelings. It used to bother me if someone was angry with me, but, now I just take it in stride. There is no way that you can please everyone, so don't even try. If I know tht I have done nothing to offend anyone I don't care if they're angry.

The people around us could not become angry or iritate without any reason. There hundered and one reasons which cause to make some one unhappy and angry. We should keep the point in mind that what is the reason which made the iritated person un happy. We should say "sorry" if fault is caused due to our side. If a person is angry due to some other person or some reason does not relate to you, then you should justify and favor the person and make him or her in cool minded position and after then we should convince about all of the blacks and whites of the topic. If this is not possible, then we should leave him or her alone and we should run off to escape from such critical situation.

if someone is angry around me i just put my head up high,walk away before i do get mad and say its gonna be ok,and no one or nobody is gonna put my pride down and make me say things that i will regret.because alot of times when someone is angry they tend to say hurtful things to each other and even though most of the time they dont mean it,it was still said.to me that would bother me.dont put your pride down,keep your head up high,and just think to yourself how lovely life is,and smile.a smile goes a long way.

Hi Applecatronnie What I would do is simply ignore these people. If thsi doesn't really work I will stay friendly, and play it like a joke. This way you get them angry because you did not get angry at them :) In any case, combatting anger with anger doesn't work, and sometimes trying to talk about it doersn't work either, as it depends on so many things all together, andf every situation is different. So, I hope your question is hipothetical :)

Well, if I can do something to make them smile or cheer up it's my pleasure to do it. It is nice to at least make people smile when they are down or shall I say, I love to help them lighten their days. *smile* Anyways, I am not the one whom they got upset, right? So maybe I can listen to their heartaches and can give some advices to help them out from that mood. I will be definitely happy if they were happy too. *wink* *smile*

If people around me are mad at me for something that petty, I find new people to be around. You have a great attitude. Don't let people like that bring you down.

I will just ignore them. As long as I know that I'm not doing anything wrong then I honestly don't care if they are angry with me. You can't please everybody and I'm not even going to try.

i was in such situation several years ago. i had a girl friend who was from the same city with me, so i took her as my best friend. but sometimes she would talked ill behind me, then i felt very angry and sad. she was my best friend, why she did that against me? then i knew the reason. once i had a new cloth, then she would say it was not suitable for me, and i was ugly with wearing the cloth. when i had a new boyfriend, then she would say his faults and she was not friendly to any of my boyfriends. so they were often surprised that she was really my good friend. now i lost connection with her, because she brought my bad memories. if people around you are angry with such little things, then do yourself, i dont' think they are really friendly to you.

I would try to get down to the bottom of it. If I couldn't then I would feel hurt but would move on and hope that in time they would get over their little "mood"

When I know people are angry with me I talk to them. If I think that I have hurt their feelings or offended them in some way and now they are acting mad, I pull them aside and talk to them. I explain that I am the type of person who says what is on her mind and I don't intend to hurt their feelings by doing it. If I think they are mad just for the sake of being mad, I ignore them. People who are always mad take the good energy out of those around them. They bring you down! Ignore them and move on! It is not worth the time or energy.

If I konw somebody are angry with me,if he or she is my friend,I will ask him or her what I did wrong.But if he or she I dno't know very well,I will avoid meeting him or her.Because I don't want to bother myself for unimportant things.

It's their right to express themselves however they want even if the motive is unclear. However you must maintain a possitive energy and you'll find their eplressions will have little effect on you.

when i know people around me are angry with me i will beg they great pardon and i will say i'm sorry. and i hope they can forgive me. cause i wont everybody are angry with me and i think it is a worst thing for me.

still be friendly just as long as you did not do anything wrong to those people. but if they were angry because you have done something wrong then you apologize. it's not your fault if they got angry for no reason at all. if you would continue to be friendly maybe they would soon change their attitude towards you. but if not, then at least you did your part. =)

I have seldom, if ever, been around people that I know are angry with me with one exception. My wife. LOL In that case I let her rant on and try not to take it personal. I am not a social person for the most part. Not sure why just have never been. As a result most people I am around do not really know me that well so have not much to be angry at. Of course that is true even if they did. LOL

If people are angry with you and do not have the courtesy to sit down and discuss it with you then it is their problem, and I would not waste a moments time trying to figure it out.You are not a mind reader, so don't even try. keep on being happy

Helo apple, i guess just learn to play the 'daff' thats a word coined by my friends and me for 'pretending to be deaf n dumb' i hope this works b'cos attempting to change people or their attitude is next to impossible so its better and wise to change ourselves and our attitude. You get your peace of mind and they get nothing LOL - Ano

First, I never make any chance for such a situation and even if it happens, I think I would quit the scene. It would be too much unpleasant for me to be there for long. :)

I usually tend to feel things out because you can't be sure that it is you that they are angry with. When I know for sure I usually just stay quiet and look for an opportunity to find out why they are angry and then find a solution.heheheh!