Should Your Weight Determine If You Are A Good Parent?
By greeneyes975
@greeneyes975 (19)
United States
August 17, 2007 10:05pm CST
This morning while watching the news I came across a sad story of weight discrimination. An overweight husband and his wife were attempting to adopt a 2 month old family member. The courts decided against the couple indicating that the husband could die well before the child was an adult.
I know that during the adoption process the health of the potential parents need to be considered, but this is a clear case of discrimination. The couple's state has considered them fit and healthy enough to be foster parents for many years, but all of the sudden when they are ready to adopt they are not fit to do so.
What next? Is the government going to discriminate against potential parents because they are not the same race as the child?
With all the homeless children and so few adopting parents we are in no position to turn down loving families because they are overweight. Most of the people in the US are overwieght!
I agree with the process of an overall health screening for potential parents because yes, the could die before the child is and adult but the truth is so could any parent.
4 responses
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
19 Aug 07
This is unbelievable! I mean, anyone can get hit by a car, or have an aneurysm. Are they going to start screening out people whose families have a history of health problems?
This poor child. And to think, it's a family member? I thought it was important to the government that children stay with their families?
@ranitam22 (1146)
• United States
19 Aug 07
I can see where you are coming from. I know in my state obesity is a big problem and there are many state programs and fun things that promote fitness and health. Obesity is a nationwide problem and there are a lot of children who need loving parents. I guess the courts were thinking about the child's well being. Maybe they didn't feel like the couple's eating habits or lifestyle would benefit the child and could actually hurt the child in the long run if the child were to become obese as well. Obesity comes with higher risks and chances for health problems earlier than normal.
@beckish (641)
• United States
18 Aug 07
This is truly appalling. I hope this couple takes legal action, because weight discrimination is illegal. Life has no guarantees - anyone could die at any moment. To deny a child a safe and happy home because the parents are overweight is totally out of line.
@marcialoyd (1173)
• United States
19 Aug 07
That is insane. If they are the only people willing to take this baby on in the FAMILY why should they be denied simply because they are overweight? My moms brother was adopted as a baby because he had health problems and my grandmother could not pay for the treatment he needed. It tore her apart and she grieved for her baby boy for years and years. I am a firm believer that if someone within a family wants to adopt a child by all means keep that baby with its own blood family. We could all die in the next 5 minutes for any reason. life is never a guarantee.