Insecurity ruin relationships: Do you agree or disagree?
By Abbypia
@Abbyey (760)
Philippines
August 18, 2007 2:52am CST
Insecurity - its when you look at yourself lower than others. Or its when you have a certain physical / mental / emotional / financial weakness which you consistently compare with other people who have better.
Personally i agree that insecurity ruins relationship most of the time. Because this insecurity is where jealousy mostly begin too. And jealousy when out of hand creates chaos.
Avoiding insecurity is mostly gain to a continues/progressive struggle to have self confidence. Self confidence in yourself by looking at what is good in you more than what is bad. Do look at what you can do rather than what you cannot do.
Its hard not to feel insecure as they say, though it is a struggle... i believe that the benefit of it is more than anyone can weigh. Self confidence can do a lot of good things as long as you are in the right place at the right time too.
How about you? What's your opinion?
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2 responses
@jlcp25 (45)
• United States
18 Aug 07
Oh, most definitely! Any relationship I was in prior to getting married, including my marriage, was ruled by insecurities on the part of my boyfriend(s) or my now husband. We almost didn't get married because of his insecurities. Jealousy is a major concern in any relationship.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
18 Aug 07
Yes I think it does, because when some one is feeling insecure they always think everyone in the world wants their loved one, so sometimes they are thinking things are happening when they are not.
