Would you hold back an important secret from your husband/partner/wife?
By taylorblue
@taylorblue (1286)
Canada
7 responses
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
18 Aug 07
So you would be open to tell your spouse everything??
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@confessing7girl (340)
• Portugal
18 Aug 07
of course everyone keeps secrets its human nature! its natural to hv something that is only urs! something that u might find embarrassing or something u just dont feel comfortable telling or maybe just some secret silliness... theres nothing wrong with keeping secrets!
so taylor u keep a secret from ur husband!!?? now thats a 1st! i thought u guys shared absolutely everything!
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
18 Aug 07
You learn something new everyday don't you?? I am keeping a secret and I won't tell you!! :)
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
18 Aug 07
It's something that happened around 9/11 and we have moved on from that ... no need to dig it up again
@confessing7girl (340)
• Portugal
18 Aug 07
if u dont even tell ur husband i was not expecting u to tell me! i kinda got it u wouldnt!! duh :D u will not even tell if it is a small secret or a big one?? personal or family related hehehe?????
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
18 Aug 07
I don't think it is necessary for couples to divulge every deep, dark secret they have. Sometimes telling secrets makes us feel better but hurts the partner or the relationship unnecessarily. I do have a secret that I keep from my husband, too!
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@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
18 Aug 07
Sometimes secrets are better off unsaid. I think as women we always seem to hold one thing back.
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@medicsrep (130)
• India
18 Aug 07
well, my friend i too wont share and hold back my secrets to anyonebecause sometimes it happens thatdisclosing secrets puts you in some difficult satituion.that you wont like to face.
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
18 Aug 07
OK but sometimes the secret you have will hurt them even more. And if the situation is over and you have moved in there is no use dragging it back up right?
@medicsrep (130)
• India
18 Aug 07
well ther are different types of secrets it definately depends upon the situation ofcourse with the relations with the person to whom you are going to share
@agnescav (566)
• United States
19 Aug 07
I have a customerwho is 80 years old and has been married 60 years. i have to ask his phone number. The last time he came in he said he shouldn't give me his number because his wife might find out. Then he said he would never cheat on his wife after 60 years. Quite kiddingly and not expecting an answer I asked him if he ever cheated on her before 60 years. First he said no. Then he said yes once but he asked God to forgive him.
he hasn't told her and doesn't plan to. it was a mistake and a secret she doesn't need to know!
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
18 Aug 07
It's better mannered that way, because your husband always closed the toilet's door when he is in there....never tell you what's happening while in the toilet...so that's the great point for you!!!!
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