How to tell your new boyfriend you are not a virgin anymore??

start with " though i love you very much, i dont know if being true to you matters" love , apple.

well these days in society, it's kind of hard to believe that anyone is still a virgin after a certain age. Depending on her age, if he's not a virgin he shouldn't really get upset.

I don't think it really matters much, is he still a virgin, I bet not so fair is fair but to be honest no one can really tell for sure any way unless your going to have a medical examination...if he was a vigin I just wouldn't say anything, if he isn't tell him and just tell he was was better any way and he should be happy.

Hello confessing7girl,Thanks for your post.Ask your friendto ask her boyfriend " You always claim that you love me from your heart, now suppose any unfortunate incidence happens as life is unpredictable and ten men tie you with rope and rape me infront of you, , will you still love and accept me as now or will refuse me as I will loose my virginity?" Ask her to wait and let her boyfriend tospeak. Perhaps everyone of us can guess his boyfriends answer.Now your friend should ask her boyfriend "So you mean virginity doesnt matter for you but only true love matters for you as even after that incidence if I say I love you and will be comitted towards you forever will you be still commited towards me like you are now?" Now your friend should tell her history of loosing her virginity in ten sentences slowly and wait for few days. If she feels repeatedly that her boyfriend is avoiding her intentionally,then your friend should kick him out of her life and should understand that was not her true love and should look for a new guy to get true love and still if she dont find her true love then ask her to get married arranged by her parents and I hope your friend herself will not dare to take a foolish decesion anymore to confess about her previous history of loosing her virginity infront of her newly married husband hahahahahaa

Why does her boyfriend need to know? Is it really any of his business? This is really silly! Why must she confess anything to him? Who's life is it anyway? Just because he's now her boyfriend doesn't give him any right to know How she has lived her life in the past! Lets get real!

Just a question, why does her boyfriend think she is a virgin, did he just assume, or did she tell him she was a virgin? I don't really see the problem if she is not, is he a virgin himself also?

dear friend , i'm a boy and i think most of us are ready to hear some news of our new girl friend like thrie virginit's loosing!!! so your friend should not be afraid , just tell her to tery to be honest to her BF , in this way i don't think there would be any problem.

is it still an issue here in eath!!??? dont worry for what will other people say about that!!.. worry for your self when you face God and asked you if you failed to follow His ten commandments!!! remember?? it is included there!!.... human are just human!!! so what if your not!!! he's late..lol... just want to break the ice!!! what i really want to say is that you cant turn back time it's just two things!!! wether he accepts that or he leaves you... nways i bet your not the only girl that had s*x with other before your husband!!?? am i right!!.... and besides he's just your boyfriend!!...^_^

This is depend on her boyfriend acceptance of this situation. Does he has previous girlfriend, does he mind on the virginity matter. If he matter on this issue, then you have to ask yourself whether you want to settle once for all by telling him the truth. You can tell him that you are very sorry for him that you have to leave him for good. When he wanted to know why desperately, then tell him but try not to expect he will forgive you. Just let your fate be the answer. In this way you might have a stronger and worried-free life.