Life Goal

Chen,Maybe you are trying to get some goal accomplished without planning first.What you need do is set yourself a map to that goal with small steps in between that goal.Break what ever it is that you have in mind into parts and then just accomplish one part at a time. For instance if you needed to purchase groceries for the week(goal) then you would make yourself a list (parts)you would then go to the store and purchase one item (part)from that list at a time...Yes? Before you leave the store you have reached your (goal) food for the week. Do the same for the other goals in your life.Just do one small piece at a time. All to often we look at the end game and get overwhelmed and quit before getting started. Just take one step at a time..one day at a time,and then you will meet your goal.

I think if you focus too much on reaching one goal, there is the big possibility of being disappointed. Maybe have lots of little goals to try and reach, and not worry too much about the big goal. If you are happy doing what you are doing, hopefully you get a little closer to what you really want!

Just as you, me too is faced with alot of trying situations in my life, and even at this juncture i am facing a lot more probs in my life. My fate of life is hanging in balance. But still i feel relaxed and i have learnt the art of taking things just as it comes. Worrying for thing will not solve the Cause for the worry. So i decided to stop fuming and fretting. Good luck:)

Life's primary goal is to live, survive. If you have other goals, first you have to realize you and then realize others. Understanding things in its right way is important. Your definitions may not be correct always. Set up a goal with confidence. Make yourself confident first. Always have a smile in your heart and face. Thank you:)