getting hurt by the one you love

Of course it is very rude of him to hurt you saying words like that. But sometimes, you know, when someone just loses his temper, he finds it hard to control it and regrets what he has done later when he is calm. Therefore we need to read more to improve our quality.

no, i have felt wworthless for 21yrs, my husband calls it terms of endearment...such a hard one to get out of i'm still trying

Calling names and things like that can sometimes be just as bad if not worse than beating. I don't think it is normal for someone that says they love you to call you names. I don't do that with my husband and he doesn't do that with me.

Hello Mistissa, thats really sad to hear about you and your loved one having problems. But have you spoken to him about how this hurts you deeply. Most times people say and do things - it may sound wierd - but they do things that hurt us b'cos WE LET THEM. Talk to him and find out the reason there would be so many things happening which you are not aware, so please talk and make it clear that name calling and making you feel like a nobody is hurting you a lot and you wont have it anymore. Also remember you are NOT nothing. You are someone special, so make yourself count buddy, take care and be happy and i will send up a little prayer, and may angels be with you to make your life beautiful.