Threesomes

@meyoni (352)
United States
October 26, 2006 12:48pm CST
My partener wants one, and I'm not sure Help!
4 people like this
25 responses
@usmckate (30)
• United States
28 Oct 06
my husband and I used to joke about it all the time. If I were you I'd sit down and have a talk with yourself, it's sharing one of the most sacred parts of your relationship with a third wheel.
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@meyoni (352)
• United States
3 Nov 06
doesn't sound good when you put it like that.
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Threesome? That sounds like a recipe for disaster! Never, ever, let someone talk you into something that you don't feel is right. If you are hesitating, something is holding you back, and that right there tells you that it is beyond your comfort zone. Sounds to me like he's just wanting to live out a fantasy of his. Some fantasies are left better unexplored! Ask yourself this: will doing this bring the two of you closer together? Then ask yourself: does he treat me like he respects me? Probably not, for if you're uncomfortable, the whole thing will just leave you feeling used and confused. Respect? I don't see how anyone who truly loves you would even think about putting another woman into the equation. And I sure wouldn't want to take any bets that if he got away with it once, that he wouldn't expect it from you a whole a lot more often. (You know...give 'em an inch and he'll ask for a mile???) Just my humble opinion...
@meyoni (352)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I love your response. Thank you sooooooo much!
• United States
3 Nov 06
if you're not sure than don't do it. if you think you may want to. Really think about it. and then ask your partner if you could have with another man too. it's only fair. i've been there done all of it. and the end results were quite satisfying. But I think you need to know what you really want and make sure you can handle seeing your man with another woman. it's really not that bad. if you like girls and being with a girl..then you'll have fun. if not, then please don't risk your relationship over a stupid fantasy that your partner wants you to fulfill. if he continues to push for it, I suggest you ask him to find himself a more willing girl that'll do that with him. Everyone is different. and it's really not worth getting your feelings hurt over a night of pleasure for him.
@meyoni (352)
• United States
3 Nov 06
Thank you. I really like myLot for all the people who have responded. The are so great. I like the help.
• United States
3 Nov 06
What is wrong with you? Don't you respect yourself? He does not treasure you or cherish you. What if he ends up wanting your friend over you? God Bless
@meyoni (352)
• United States
3 Nov 06
That is why we are not married. Doesn't mean I don't love him.
@macubx (11414)
• Philippines
3 Nov 06
dont, your partner may fall inlove with the 3rd party.. just like what happened to other discussers here in mylot..
@meyoni (352)
• United States
3 Nov 06
No not up for that. His love can only be mine.
3 Nov 06
plz dont indulge, its a vicious circle, tell ur man to unconditionally love, it is only for his self-gratification, u r goint to looose on all the fronts, keep his thoughts at bay.
@meyoni (352)
• United States
3 Nov 06
Wow sounds like you know from experience. Thank you.
@nickel1191 (2790)
• India
3 Nov 06
Do it only if you want it....dont do it under pressure....and take the necessary precautions....
• United States
27 Oct 06
does he really?
• United States
27 Oct 06
i'd sock him in the face! lol
@BrendaA (365)
• United States
3 Nov 06
yuk
@wasabibot (129)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Is your partner the girl in the picture there with you?
@meyoni (352)
• United States
3 Nov 06
no
• United States
28 Oct 06
Don't do it if you are not sure. It can be great if everyone is comfortable, but it you really have doubts, wait.
@meyoni (352)
• United States
3 Nov 06
Thank you for your kind thoughts.
@DFrodeo06 (1325)
• United States
3 Nov 06
basicly all he want is to cheat but with your pemission and you there, i would say no
@sksingh (1411)
• Germany
3 Nov 06
what
@Brandi06 (2227)
• United States
3 Nov 06
i would not do it
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
3 Nov 06
Threesomes are a wonderful fantasy. But, in reality most people who do them usually end up with relationship problems afterwards.
@Squid101 (45)
• New Zealand
3 Nov 06
Punch him on the nose. In the nicest possible way, of course.
• United States
3 Nov 06
it works sometimes depends but it is nice
@mirage108 (3402)
• United States
3 Nov 06
First off I am a male and I believe that is every mans dream to have a 3 some. Yes I have been involved in a 3some a couple of time and I didnt see a problem, my wife at the time different from the wife I had now wanted to experiment. I would say that if you are not ready for it dont do it, other wise it might ruin your relationship that you do have. Also these days you could end up with an STD like I saw mentioned in another response to this.
3 Nov 06
Only do it if you're comfortable with the idea - don't let him push you into it. And if you do.. it's never a good idea to do it with a friend because that can cause so many problems after. And don't let him choose who it's with lol
• Netherlands
3 Nov 06
I think it improves your life. But becareful sometimes.