"If You Are Ugly On The Inside, You Are Ugly On The Outside."

I fully believe this. I have seen many beautiful people that are just awful to be around. Mean, vindictive, rude. Those are not qualities that make a beautiful person. You have to be kind, friendly, giving, trustworthy, and loving. I don't care what you look like on the outside, if you have ugly qualities, then you're not as beautiful as you may think. I also agree with what you said about having a man that might not be necessarily the most handsome but is definitely more loving. I'm lucky that my husband is a cutie, but he is also a wonderful man above all else. He is sweet and loyal and I know he loves me. Women and men want to go for the beautiful partner only to find out later that they are not quite what they seem. To give off your outer beauty, you need to show your inner beauty more.

Yes, I agree that it's what's inside a person that makes them truly attractive, no matter what they look like on the outside. Even the most attractive looking person can seem ugly when they are shallow, cruel, disrespectful or self-centered. It really is kindness, compassion and generosity that can make a person seem truly beautiful.

Oh I belive it and know it is true. I have dated a few nice looking guys that I ended up hating because of their additudes and I have had a few past friends that was the same way. They were pretty people but their actions was awful. So you have a great point here.

There is no other way it can be. In all cases, for ever person, the inner determines the outer. Most people think that it is the outer that determines the inner and that is where they make their worst mistake. Your perceptions are perfectly correct.

My older sister is beautiful to me and she is softening up from the inside. She use to be harsh when we where growing up and as an adult. Now that she is a mother she has softened up and has learned to show her beautiful side that I knew was inside of her. She has voiced to me her regret of things she has said to me and other people. I am glad she has finally found her beauty from within. I on the other hand have been the ugly fat one but with the big heart. I still have a big heart but I do not jump in and offer to help people like I use to. Live and learn.

This is so so very true. I have met some who at a glance are so beautiful physically they take your breath away but upon getting to know them....they are just jerks. In cases such as that I soon don't even see them as physically beautiful anymore. By the same token, I have dated men that are by no means "good looking" as far as physical standards but they are so very nice that I don't (really do not!) notice that. I am as attracted to him as if he were fabio! I really pay little attention to a person's physical attributes other than hygene...personal hygene is very very important to me. lack of it says an awful lot about a person.

Some of the prettiest people I have known, are soullesss zombies, so yeah personalitya nd appearance don't usually coincide in my experience.

Hi Roze37! I completely agree with you and do believe that the goodness of a person is what really counts. People who are beautiful inside affects people positively and have relationships that are good and somehow lasting. I did met a lot of physically attractive people but have rotten behaviors, and frankly speaking even if they are very popular, I really don't want to spend even a few hours with them. Take care and have a nice day!

Hi!Well,The applicable proverb is 'All that glitters is not gold' or 'Appearances prove deceptive'.One runs after 'BEAIUTY' without knowing what it actually is & gets carried away by the outer looks but regrets later.To define'BEAUTY' in short..."Beauty is not in what you are, but in what you do; It 's not in the form of things, but in the Heart of you." So the lesson learnt is we should judge people not by their LOOKS, but by their ACTIONS. GOD BLESS!! www.creatingcolourfulfuture.com