do you go shopping just becuase you are unhappy or happy?

@lisa_wxy (393)
China
August 21, 2007 9:49pm CST
i am a girl,and sometimes i go shopping just because i got mad with sb or sth. that is men usually criticize us"women are reasonless" . according to my experience,many men has the opposite experience.they tend to spend money when they are very happy. what about you?
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
22 Aug 07
It depends. I don't really go shopping because I am happy or unhappy. I usually go shopping because I need shopping for my daily life.
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
9 Oct 07
Boys are always rational.but girls are sensitive.
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
sometimes, shopping can help lighten your sadness or disappointments. This helps specially if you were able to buy lots of great things that you like. It gives you something to look forward to. It sort of serves like an inspiration to go on and reminds you that life is fun and wonderful. For guys who made their girls mad, hope this gives you an idea how to soothe her anger. LOL.
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
9 Oct 07
it is interesting ,but that is true.for girls,shopping is an important part of their life.becuase of shopping,our life is full of inspirations and beautiful dreams.one of my colleague's wife is kind of the person like u just mentioned.when she was mad with my colleague,she would go shopping buy sth for herself,sth is really expensive that she won't like to cost so much money.she said,her husband should pay for her anger:(
@Vivianh (331)
• China
22 Aug 07
I go shopping when I am mad and somtimes I am very very happy!
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
22 Aug 07
it sounds that you are a girl:) yes,when we spend money,it just sounds like we are kicking out of our worries. everyone needs a way to exclude her bad moods.
• Hong Kong
22 Aug 07
Yes I often experience that! I often go shopping when I am upset about something. Then I would reward my stuff with the things I wish to buy! I usually would feel better after spending money on a few goodies like clothes, skin care or makeup products! Those material things won't "heal" me but they do help me feel a lot better.
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
22 Aug 07
:)i feel the same way. usually,after shopping,see the "booty".i feel so contented that all the bad moods fade away.
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@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
22 Aug 07
yes,i use o make a shopping therapy if i am sad or upset to get a little bit happier.but that's only if i have money.i do think shopping helps us to get happy.maybe that's a part of women's nature.a new thing bought makes my feel happy and satisfied.although that feeling doesn't last too long
• Canada
22 Aug 07
it never happes to me. When I am happy, I enjoy the delicious foods. When I am unhappy, I still tyr to fulfill my stomach. Therefore, shoppping is not the way I try to balance myself.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
22 Aug 07
I hate shopping. What is there to shop week after week? I feel if women is working and earning money, she spends judiciously. If it is other people's money, she goes out spending all the money in buying up things which she hardly uses.