Nature - yes your nature.....what kind of person you are????????

Hi aspara, i am more like you, highly driven by heart and would not listen to brain. I am an impulsive person who would go to the extent of lending all i can afford to for my near and dear ones. Many a times ppl take advantage of me, but then i take it in my stride. as long as i can afford to bear it, it's okay. (They haven't robbed me and stripped me of my clothes as yet, lol). Previously, things were different though. I was very fidgety about small small things, trivial fights and negative comments. I used to brood over all bad things in life and used to get pains for the things i was least responsible for. then, i realised i am living a life of a slave. i am being driven by others. I don't get fat by somebody telling me so!! Apsara, its very important to literally highlight the good positive sides of our lives, which, i am sure we all have in plenty, and try and work on the drwabacks. No wonder I am much happier now. So dear, its's your life, live it your way and be happy, always.

so u r very impatient person...people around u would always be afraid of you....jokes apart.. i am a very patient guy so that i can take practical and right decisions. i always say " don't worry..be happy". problem of self confidence is also going with me. For this i have already join yoga and meditation classes. I have also joined SGI organization which is based buddhist principles which emphasize on true happiness, pray for well being of others, human revolution. www.sgi.org... sgi is buddhist network that actively promotes peace, culture and education through personal change and social contribution. want to know more about it..try the web link u can mail me at luckyvin@gmail.com

I could not see your discussion earlier. Meanwhile, before posting my reply, I have seen some outstanding responses to your discussion. I would also say that I am also very impatient person and just cannot stop myself from doing things, which I like (for example mylot). Worries also keep on coming to mind, but I try to engage myself in some useful activities, like talking to others, participating here on mylot in discussions, reading, listening to someone's problems etc. otherwise I just relax and sleep. As far as decisions are concerned, I believe, it is better to take a decision than not to take a decision. I do not repent, if my decision turns out to be a wrong one, because when I take a deicsion, it becomes difficult to predict whether it will come out correct or not...if it comes out correct, I pat my back, but if it comes out wrong, I do not curse myself because I think whatever decision I took, I took it with full honesty, sincerity and with my experience. I try to avoid negative comments, if somebody speaks ill of me, I just igonre him/her, because I cannot stop anyone from not speaking bad or good about me. I do feel hurt, when I hear negative or silly comments about myself, but I take it as part of the game. I believe, that over the years, I have consolidated my self-confience and I continue to do so...I try to take initiative and participate in activities so that I should raise my level of self-confiedence. About you......you need not worry too much that you are an impatient person...many are alike you in this world. You will find few persons, who can REALLY control themselves. Do not ever repent on any decision taken by you...nothing is good or bad,...but thinking make it so. Please do not take it to your heart when someone says negative comments about you, you are not at fault, the one who offers you silly and negative comments, he is at fault, speaking negative about you is a reflection on his/her character and personality not on YOURS. And please take negative comments as (negative) appreciation ....if someone talks about you either good or bad...it means he/she is concerned and obsessed about you and your character...and that shows that he/she cannot remain without your presence. You are liked by people, because I feel you are honest, simple and frank and I tell you that those who are honest in their appraoch are always respected and regarded by their friends and relatives. I have found you very forthcoming and open and an emotional person, who gets conncted with others very easily. I like this quality of yours. Have a nice day! Deepak

I am very cool & patient.I always speak & do things after thinking.I am never in a hurry .Even if i am angry i try to control & it & not spaek bad words because when the anger will go it really hurts .

Dear Apsara I don't think I will be able to comment much about my nature .. but yes what I have noticed about my nature is -- I keep on changing .. sometimes I don't care about anyone .. and sometimes I become over - caring .. sometimes I am good and sometimes I am bad .. so what exactly I have noticed about myself is that I keep on changing. I many a times change my nature for others .. when someone comments that this behaviour of mine is not acceptable then I try to change myself and try to renew myself and in this way I change my nature. I like the people who throw a light on my negative points because they help me a lot to improve otherwise I can never know where exactly I am going wrong. Some more about my nature -- I am very straightforward and I believe -- whatever happens .. happens for the best. I always maintain a positive attitude .. and if sometimes something irritates me .. I discuss it with my friends to get back my positive attitude. I have one feature in my nature which is exactly similar to you --- I am also a very impatient person .. but I am not always worried .. I understand that in life we many a times takes wrong decision .. but these wrong decisions also helps us to gain experience -- we learn a lot from it. If we are wrong once .. then we will be right the next time so we should not worry much about this thing. I suggest you to take the negative comments as challenge and try to improve yourself .. so the next time the person who is commenting negative about you won't be able to do that.

Honestly, I am not a confident person and I often am hurt easily. And sometimes I'm not a sensible girl. These are big problems. But I think I'm a person of consideration and nothing in the world can distroy me.^_^

To know what kind of person I am, I suggest you to ask my friends. They can give the true opinion on me.

i'm a cheerful person, i alway smile to everybody.. i love kids.. i'm patient. but sometimes, there are things i can't decide in my own. i always asks my husband's opinion or my mother's side. you can easily approach me.. if i met new people, i'm not the type of person who snobs somebody.. as what i've said, i'm approachable, fun to be with.. i'm jolly.

I'm a cheerful person, I love to laugh and make friends. My weakness is my sensitivity but I must say it can also consider as my strength because it enables me to be sensitive on what other people feels. It helps me to avoid hurting someone else's feelings.

Me, i think i am the kind that is sensitive when it comes to my family's needs. I am very selfish for myself. I always think of my family first. When i argue with a family member, it is not important to me whether i am right or wrong, all i want is that at the end of the day, i will be sleeping with peace of mind. It means i initiate to be peace with whom i had an argument with. Sometimes when i did not meet there needs, i am so affected, and it may lead me will got sick. Yes it is true. I don't know what kind of person I am. All i know is that i love my family very much.

I'm not a patient girl.when i want to do something, i often complete it as soon as possible, so my boss often think i 'm a lazy stuff, becasue he often sees me doing nothing. in fact, i complete my work and i feel a bit tired then i have a best just sitting on my dest without doing nothing. i'm confident, sometimes a bit of confident. sometimes i'm not confident, because i'm not good at it.

friend iam havivng very different type of nature i dont now what should i call myself? but trully speaking iam confident personality who loose temper in very short time,believes in god and demands everything from god,strongly believes in love,listen to my heart,and found of lots of gossiping.very sincere wife,try to become smart,active ,good mother of my two sweet childrens, always help people who come across @needs help without any selfishness. so here i am....................................