what will you do if you don't know whether you really love her or him now?

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Maybe this is a really silly question. But sometimes we will face it. I just wonder whether you will choose from your heart. Maybe you love him in fact but you can't realize this because of boring life. Maybe you really don't love him again but adapted to living with him. What will you do? Leave him or still go on? Today I start this topic just for my experience. Last year, he said to me that he decided to leave me forever just because he had no feelings of love. Though I really love him, I decided to accept this difficult choice for me.Then we devoiced. One day later, he told me that he found he loves me in fact. The feeling of love was only hided by the abnormal life--he lives in another coutry and we are not together. I'm really sad, and I still can't accept this truth today.