If we want more intimacy in our marriage...
By davido
@davido (1623)
Canada
August 23, 2007 4:52am CST
I was wondering how sweet it will be to have more intimacy in our marriages. to have this intimacy what are the most important thing we can be doing? a day to day attitude. On myt side i think it not right to wake up in the morning and be asking where is my socks?? yes it happens no good morning, no gentle caressing, etc. What are the things you think one can do to improve and increase intimacy in our marriages.
3 responses
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
27 Aug 07
I think, making time for each other in the midst of busy schedules will work fine. Just by some simple gestures like sending mobile messages, lovely worded E-mails, talking to each other on the phone, small surprise gifts now and then will bring more intimacy, don't they?
It does'nt take much time either to do all those stuffs i mentioned, its just a matter of few minutes. If one can't even commit such a liitle amount of time for their loved ones, its better they seperate.
Its not just in case of marriages, but also in all other relationships, these gestures would help bringing the two individuals more closer.
@fawcey (926)
• Australia
24 Aug 07
My hubby and I have been together since 1998 and married since 2001. We still leave little love notes for each other,in the sugar bowl, or cutlery draw. We never go to bed cross with each other, which I think is a good thing. We talk about everything and give each other hugs out of the blue. We dont take each other for granted or take for granted the things the other does. I let him know how much I appreciate the little things and he also lets me know. We have a four year old son and on the days he is at kindy we do special things together even it is just watching a movie together or going for a walk. In the mornings I know my hubby takes a bit to wake up, so I let him be and he appreciates that, we learn to give each other space when it is needed and accept each others moods. Thank god cos I can be sooo moody, but he just goes with the flow. I love him to bits. Understanding one another and accept them 100% is a great way to let the intimacy stay and blossom in a marriage or realationship, and understanding we all have bad days, be there for each other. :)
I have raved on I know but when my hubby is involved I could rave on for eternity. :)
@imbootylicious (5)
• United States
23 Aug 07
i think we should always let our husbands know how much we love them and enjoy having them in our lives because life is short and no one is promised tomorow. my husband doesnt see that unfortunately. but hey thats another discussion. lol
