Not good

@TerryZ (22076)
United States
August 23, 2007 11:33am CST
Let me start out by saying 14monthes ago I had surgery done I herniated a disc in my cervical spine. And I was doing great. Till a couple of weeks ago I started getting pain again. So I went to the doctor and yesterday I went for an MRI. My doctor just called me with the bad news I have another herniated disc.So they have faxed my MRI to my neurogislist. Now I sit and wait for furthur instructions. Please say a prayer for me I dont think I could go through another surgery. Im so scared. Im always telling everyone here to be strong and I dont think I can be strong this time.
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@AmbiePam (92719)
• United States
23 Aug 07
How scary. I know there are some medical situations I think that I could seriously never go through again. I just hope you really don't have to do a repeat surgery. I'll be praying for you, and the neurologist that they would make the absolute best decision for you.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
23 Aug 07
Thanks sweetie and least I can say I really like my neurologist. And hes not bad to look at!LOL If I dont laugh I will cry!
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@AmbiePam (92719)
• United States
23 Aug 07
You know, I think it should be mandatory that if you have to have serious surgery, the doctor is a hottie. I mean, it's only fair. : )
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@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
24 Aug 07
At my pharmacy they put out a basket of apples during harvest season. Next to it they put a sign: An apple a day, keeps the doctor away. If the doctor is cute, lay off the fruit.
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@mimatexas (1818)
• United States
23 Aug 07
I am so sorry to hear that, TerryZ. How old are you? My mother has a deteriorated disc on her spine too and she is looking for a second opinion because she wants surgery and her doctor do not advise her to go through surgery since she is already 70 years old. But she doesn't resist the pain. If God will, she is going to seek this second opinion. As for you, I am going to put you in my prayers and may the Lord heal you and you don't go through surgery.
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
24 Aug 07
That's a smart decision. Take the meds he suggests, even if you get gooned out for a bit, it's better than the pain. If you follow the instructions you won't get addicted, believe me after over two years juggling prescriptions under a very good doctor, I am still ok. It's all in doing what you're told.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Thanks my friend. I dont want surgery again. Ive been through it. But sometimes they have to do surgery because how the disc is herniated it can lean against your spinal cord and then you will paralized. I will do what my doctor says. I appreciate your prayers I need them.LOL
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
25 Aug 07
Oh no Sweetie I am 3 Days late on this and I am so sorry Please be strong Darling you will be in my thoughts I wish I could be there with you and give you Hugs and try and give you strength I really hope that it will not need another Surgery Oh Sweetie I am with you I love you Big Hugs with this xxx
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
25 Aug 07
I am glad about that Sweetie but please remember you have my Email address and I am here for you ok promise me that
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
25 Aug 07
Thanks Gabs Im being strong and Im copeing alot better today with it. I will find out more this week and I just made my mind up I will be fine. I appreciate your support and it means the world to me.xxx
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
26 Aug 07
I have your email and I do promise I will use it when Im not feeling so strong.LOL Thanks for that. Love and hugs to you always!
• United States
24 Aug 07
I just said a prayer for you and asked God to heal you so that you don't have to go through another surgery. Remember that even if you do need another procedure, you do not have to be strong, you can lean on God and family and allow them to be your strength. Be well! Kerry
• United States
25 Aug 07
I hope you are doing well today. You are still in my thoughts:)
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
You are so sweet! Thankyou and I never heard that before. Im going to be strong. But like you said theres always family and god. Great advice!
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
Hi TerryZ! I am so sorry to hear that. You can be assured you will be in my prayers. Be strong, take courage and you can always count us your friends here in myLot for support. Take care and have a nice day!
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Thanks sweetie for your support.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
Hi TerryZ! You're most welcome. How are you? Take care.
@thefortunes (2367)
• Netherlands
23 Aug 07
Dear TerryZ, Please don't get the FEAR to wear you down! You will make it dear friend, and I'll be praying that your medics will find the best sollution for you and ASAP too :) And that you stay courageous, and have the firm believe that you'll be healthy again! BELIVE in this dear, and stay strong! And keep us updated please God Bless
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
23 Aug 07
Thanks for your kind words Im trying.
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@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
14 Sep 07
Same here,I also find you by Pyewacket's discussion and I hope you are fine .You are the second friend with health problems and just yesterday after moths of troubles I learn that my other friend is fine now.She had her last tests and everything are more than fine.I wish same for you too.I prayed a lot for her,I strongly believe that prays help,and I gonna do the same for you too. My best wishes for you.....
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
14 Sep 07
I believe that prayers do help and I appreciate you praying for me. Thankyou so much.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
24 Aug 07
I am sorry to hear that Terry and I will keep you in my prayers. I know what it is like to have a herniated disc and even though I opted for non surgical treatments i.e. physio, I'm sure your neurologist will suggest the best cause of action or treatment to take. Take care!
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Thanks for your support and Im hangind in there.LOL
@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
29 Aug 07
I am so sorry to hear this about your health. I found this discussion because I just started a similar on about my little sister who also had surgery on her back about a year ago and now they found another herniated disc and she is scheduled for surgery this friday. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope by now you have heard something from your doctor. I hope you feel better soon.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
29 Aug 07
Im going to the surgeon in a couple of weeks. I do hope your sister is okay and that she will feel good real soon. I do know what she is going through. Help her stay strong. Thanks for your support
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
Oh my dear, how i wish i do have a healing power so that i can help you to be healed. Im sad knowing your condition and it makes me wanna help you but i don't know how. All i know now that it can help is through prayers. I will pray for you, and please be strong my dear, you can survive from there. Just believe to the power of God and he will heal you.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
14 Sep 07
Oh I wish you had the powers to heal me too. Thankyou so much it meant alot.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
29 Aug 07
Oh, TerryZ I am so sorry to hear this. I am glad you told us since you are having such a hard time with it. That is what friends do is hold each other up during times when we can't stand on our own. I'll be praying for you, hun. Keep us updated.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
29 Aug 07
Awww thanks my friend that does mean alot to me. All you guys are so great here on mylot. I promise to keep you updated.
@Ricko82 (584)
• Philippines
15 Sep 07
I am so sorry to hear about your herniated disc. I hope and pray that God will touch your hernia and put everything in place again so that doctors won't have to cut you open again. Your age are really prone to herniated disc so be careful when moving to avoid more complications. However, in my age, I think I got it too. Although I never had my back check by doctors because I am afraid of what they might find. I feel all the symptoms of herniated discs; I can not even sit sometimes because of excruciating pain in my lower back. I'm gonna say a little prayer tonight for you before I sleep. Cheers!
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
15 Sep 07
Thankyou I appreciate your prayers I will need them!
• Philippines
24 Aug 07
oh sweety..please do take care of yourself..i will be saying a prayer for you so hope things will be better..just stay positive like you tell me..everything will be fine..lots of hugs for you..
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Im really trying to be positve thanks for your support my sweet friend.
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
14 Sep 07
i hope you feel better and my prayers will be with you.i know its a very scary thing to go threw but with gods faith and all your strong power and all the great mylotter friends you have,you will be ok.i will pray for you.take care hon,hope all goes well for you.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
14 Sep 07
Once again thankyou for your kind words. Thanks to my friends Im feeling strong again. It means the world to me. Hugs to you.
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
24 Aug 07
oh Terry I am so sorry =( ((HUGS)) I will say an extra prayer for you today and hope everything will be okay
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Thanks for your prayers Im going to need them.LOL
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
24 Aug 07
omg i'm so sorry ur going through this! i will def. keep u in my prayers! i hope all goes well TerryZ ♥
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Thanks sweetie I need your prayers. Now if I could just wake up from this nightmare.LOL
@kbkbooks (7022)
• Canada
24 Aug 07
You have my prayers and big hugs (gently)!! I know the pain you have. I suppose it's all a matter of how you look at things, but if surgery can help you, then do it, of course after several opinions. I don't fear surgery anymore, I guess because I have had it for so many different reasons over my life, but it can't help my back pain. I would go for surgery to fix my pain soooo fast if they had such a thing. Even vitamins and supplements can't help me. If you can get help from surgery, get yourself referred to a good specialist and do it. A friend of mine had a disk that had calcium deposits growing inside it, closing around the sciatic nerve and causing him terrible pain. The surgeon went in to fix what he thought was a slipped disk and found the calcium deposits. He fixed it in that surgery which was supposed to be only exploratory. It was very scary for him and for all of us who were close to him. He survived it and healed up within a few months and was better than new. I have wished I could do that now, but it's not the same problem so I am out of luck there. He was only 23 at the time and it was over 30 years ago and he's never had anymore trouble. I don't have a herniated disk but they thought that was what I had because my pain is so intense. First my doctor who is an MD and an osteopath did some manipulations and that really didn't help, in spite of the regular xrays telling him it should. After a few weeks he decided I should have some more tests. It took our wonder efficient provincial medical system almost a year to get me scheduled for a NRI...Nuclear Resonance Image... which revealed that I have arthrosis and am actually missing the cartelige between two sets of disk (4 disks in total) in two different locations in my lower spine. They told me it will basically deteriorate and get worse as I get older. Back pain and treatment can be scary for sure. Mine is only treated with various meds (coming to a huge total each week - more than I eat in food in a month). Go for it hon. Godspeed, hugs.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Thankyou for your support I do appreciate it. I dont want surgery again and if it can be avoided I want to keep it that way.Thanks for your hugs too.
@cipher2004 (1183)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Wow Terry.I am so sorry for your pain.You are a strong person to indure such pain.So don't for one moment think that you are not!Now you listen to me young lady (and yes you are still young)you stay calm have faith.Get the surgery done if need be.You have alot of friends here you can talk to anytime.We will keep you busy so you forget about your troubles.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Awwwww thanks you put a smile on my face. Your right I will be strong.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
24 Aug 07
OMG--I'm sorry I'm so late with this but I haven't been here until just now....Now you know very darn well that not only will I say prayers for you but I'll get my two kitties in on it also. I don't think anyone looks forward to the idea of another surgery, especially if it caused a lot of initial pain afterwards in a previous one. So yes, TerryZ I have you in my prayers!! (((((hugs))))
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
LOL Your a good friend to have. I got your adorable card I loved it. It made me smile alot. Im hanging in there so far.
@cmsk2005 (1770)
• United States
24 Aug 07
I pray for you so that you don't have to go for another one right now. But I don't know is there any other way to cure it. It is painful so if its there you will have pain sometime. So I also pray for you so that if you have to go for curing it, you can be strong enough to overcome it. You will find the strength my friend.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Thanks for your kind words.