You look more beautiful when you are angry!

Thanks soooooooooooooooooooooo much liking the discussion. I try my best to make a person smile, specially when she/he is down and out or in bad mood. As regards, your point that my wife is lucky to have me as her husband, I will have to confirm it from her, whether she agrees with your opinion or not? LOL! I will surely be glad to share tips with you regarding pleasing others, whenever a request comes from you. And please please do not say that you are not good at winning hearts, I am not in agreement with your statement. In fact you are more expert than I,in winning hearts, as far as I feel. Have a good day! +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ rated.

lol..you just spoke my mind.

deepak, was just pulling..

Thanks for your reply, I am not going to use it regularly...this idea is used sometimes, depending upon the circumstances, if I start using it everytime, then I will be in soup. Have a nice day!

when I ended my first sentence with ...lol.....it is obvious that I was joking.......so don't take it seriously. Well I am a woman so I will obviously praise women more than men... take the whole thing lightly deepak....this is just a discussion and not decision.......have a nice day.

So you were joking! Or You were pulling my legs! LOL! :) :)

Dear, thanks for your interesting response and comments. But how can you conclude that when I say to my better half that she is looking beautiful....I am NOT appreciating her in reality? 'Beauty lies in the eyes of a beholder', you know that. ....so you cannot say that I am telling her a lie that she is looking beautiful when she gets angry! Please do not generalise the statement that all women have big heart and they cannot see their hubbies in pressure for a ling time...and they finally give up and they do not bow down because of appreciation. I may tell you all are not large hearted and broad minded like you. Have a nice day!

Dear Anonymili, thanks very much for your wonderful response. I have already written above, in response to SSS123's reply that - I am not going to use it regularly...this idea is used sometimes, depending upon the circumstances, if I start using it everytime, then I will be in soup' I entirely agree with you that this idea cannot work everytime, in that case, there are other ideas to cool the tempers down (you appear to me very experienced person in this field so I feel that there is no need to reveal those ideas for you...LOL!) Have a nice day! Deepak

Mili! I am sorry could not see your comments earlier. I may tell you that even my temper is also short-lived. I cannot sustain my anger or annoyance (In fact I started a discussion on this topice -"how long you can carry your annoyance). It is better not to carry your anger for a longer period. Have a nice day! :) :)

Thanks for your lovely reply to my comment. I have to add here that even though I have a very short temper, it is actually also very short-lived, i.e. I can shout and scream and then be all happy and cheerful again 2 minutes later. This is not always the case but mostly. My husband has learnt to back off (when he's in a sensible frame of mind) and let me cool off myself rather than make things worse by offering silly comments or singing silly songs to me LOL!

Thanks very much for liking my idea and for your comments. Suba, 'Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder' you would agree with me on this point. It is a debateable point whether a person looks beautiful or othewise while in anger. Presuming, he/she does not look beautiful while angry, but I feel, saying positive and humours words can have a magical effect on the other person. Have a nice day and happy weekend!

Thanks for agreeing with me.

nice comments deepak.I agree with you that what ever we say or react totally depends on the way we see things.Its the attitude that matters most.

Thanks very much for liking my idea and supporting me that it does work in certain circumstances. I believe that humour should always be there in life, even when one is getting angry, adding a pinch of homour can do wonders. Have a nice day!

Please read 'humour' instead of homour.

Thanks Bala!

Thanks for the interesting reply. So you agree with me that this kind of ideas do work ...when our partner is angry! LOl! :) :)

Thanks very much for all the positive words for me and my family. I try to defuse the situation by any means, I just cannot bear that someone is getting angry because of me.....I will use just every trick in my sleeve to calm the charged atmospere. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ rated.

Hi! Vani! So you agree with my view point. I tell you this idea surely works and cools down the situation. How are you? Where were you? Deepak

Thanks very much dear, atleast my discussion could make you happy and laugh. Have a nice day!

Thanks for sharing and appreciating my ideas.

No way...when we are peace...I will made her feel...that she looks ugly....I can tell her.....anytime...that she looks beautiful....I have no hesitation in that. Anyways thanks for enriching the post with your interesting thoughts.

So you agree with me that sometimes, this idea does wonders and cools down the tempers! LOL! :):)

Thanks very much for liking my idea and thanks for your reply! Have a nice day!

Thanks very much for sharing your experience with us. Have a nice day!

Thanks very much for liking my idea and thanks for your reply! Have a nice day!

Thanks for your valuable comments. Will you also blush on hearing this kind of comments, when you are angry? Have a nice day!

Thanks very much for sharing your experiences with us...so the bottom line is...this idea does work for calming down our partner,as it did for you. No doubt about it, I love my partner and would always like to see her smiling. Have a nice day!