Is it really hrd to forget your first love

Yes it is very difficult to forget your first "true" love. If it is really true then I think no one ever forgets the first love.

First love since when, maybe when you were 6/7yrs? Better move on with life.

Forget about first love, I cant even forget my first crush. I was in school then, barely 11/12yrs and I had this very superior notion about myself. I thought I was very grown-up and all that. To top it, I went to a girls’ school and at home I was brought up in a very strict atmosphere. So boys were like the most coveted things to me. Not all girls are like me, but I was like too mature for my own good. Well this guy was a peon in my school (yes, don’t stare, its true), I don’t even know whether he was handsome or not, I was of an age when every guy who looked at me was handsome. Well, I had a great heartbreak when I left school after say 4/5yrs. there was of course no question on any relationship, it was just one way crush. Now I am married for 10yrs and my hubby just dotes me. Even I love him more than anyone else, but sometime I still think of that guy…how he must be looking like now, what does he do, where does he live etc. I also think that in my entire life, will I never once meet him again and if I do, will we recognize each other? It’s just idle curiosity, nothing more.

'course! it's like having the first slice of a delicious cake and letting it fall out your plate! even if you can make another slice.. nothing really beats the first.. and love.. oh! not just the infatuation, attraction thing.. it's much more!.. and when you've found it?.. why and how would you be able to forget it, right?

I think in some cases it is hard. Because, that is the first form of a relationship that you get accustomed to, and I think, for females anyways, we tend to set our preferences towards how that individual made you feel. Even if they dogged you out, you still have those thoughts and feelings only because they have set the tone. I think it takes a mature person to realize this could be a false perception of love, when you're really just holding on to memories, and not conforming to something new, possibly better, and a greater love!