If your friend BETRAYS you and somtime later ASKS again for friendship.......
@omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057)
Pakistan
August 24, 2007 7:10am CST
What if sometimes in your life a friend you thought is a very good of yours and he/she betrays you but after sometime(like years or months) he/she comes back and asks you again for frienship, then would you TRUST him/her or would you not? Please be brief in your answer?
Yes, this has happened to me and that's why I asked you. I wouldn't go deeply into this thing and won't consider telling you even a thing. I've my own reasons so please PLEASE don't ask about that I would be thankful to you. I would not AND CERTAINLY not trust anyone after this incidence. Yes, she cameback and even her friends told me she's quite upset on betraying me but I didn't have a cent percent trust on her now. My friends, not a single boy tells me to go accept her and moreover, they all say she must have comeback leaning over asking anything else or might be playing with me.
Do you or will you accept someone's friendship after being betrayed by that some person?
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 07
YES and my answer with my concrete reasons. First of all I have my philosophy in my life for friendship;
"BETTER BE FRIENDED TO BAD PERSON THAT WE RECOGNIZED RATHER HAVING SOMEONE GOOD BUT WE DON'T KNOW WHO ACTUALLY THEY ARE".
The bad particular chap that we recognized as ex-friend is easy for us to make restrictions and refraining to anything that we deal with them on any matters of life.
His or her coming back to us is a good "killer weapon" for us for them not to repeat what ever things that having said "the mistake" and would try the best to foster back our friendship.
In fact in this world, mistake is an opportunity if you look it deeply at your positive side of mind. And everybody has done a mistake in life, no one was clean from not doing mistake. Apologetic manner is the remedial effect to make us to be more matured and learn about discipline in our own life.
Just look at your hand fingers, they will never be at the same length. Why? Because each finger has its own advantages of functions and functioning. If you only has one finger, not much can be done to assists you in your life. Same thing happening in our life, look for 10 friends to be classified as "MY DEAR BEST FRIENDS".
Sorry my dear friend, my fingers now feeling 'numb' on typing to give you answers, still got more in my mind through my profound findings and experiences about friends and friendship.....frankly, I got to go for earning, and idling here just for you is very unfair for me because myLot only pay me 1cent and only. First and foremost I hope your are in very virtually and mutually understanding with my friendship's reason.....please understand my words...
The Little Me,
Michael
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@omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057)
• Pakistan
24 Aug 07
Well, you've written exceptionally fine. Thank you for your advices but I can't forgive her no matter what. :@
@omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057)
• Pakistan
24 Aug 07
Sorry, it would be punched her yet. I can't since she's a girl I mean opposite gender. :@
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
25 Aug 07
Hi omer_ahmed_tabarik! They say everyone deserves second chances but that also depends on how the person who hurt you will do to earn back that trust again. As for me, I can't really say that I will accept the friendship after a betrayal. i can always forgive but I can never forget, in order for me not to make the same mistake again. Trust can not be dictated or be given freely, it must be earned. So, I don't think I can trust someone who has betrayed me for his or her own selfish reasons. Take care and have a nice day!
