need an advice.. my ex-boyfriend wants me back!

If your ex-boyfriend is engaged with someone, then probably you should just refuse him. I mean, he is not yet married but the act of getting engaged means a lot more. And also, before doing that.. You must ask your ex-boyfriend first about the matter.. if he really is engaged or not.. The main question for me really is... Do you want him back? He just sent you an e-mail telling you that he wants you back. Even if you do want him back too. I think it is appropriate that both of you meet in person rather than just e-mails. If your ex-boyfriend really want you back, then he'll find ways so that both of you can talk and see each other in person. Just like what you said, your not dating someone. .So it's probably easy to start something again with your ex. But first, ask him really of the truth about that engagement thing that you heard. If it isn't true, then most definitely you can rekindle that relationship that you had lost. :) I wish you good luck and take care.

Why would you even think twice about this. He is your EX right. Why is he your EX? And after he left you he found someone willing to marry him without him even loving her. If he did you would not be getting e-mails. Do not respond to him. Consider him a leason learned. If you take him back you are asking for about the same as you had before or worse.

Hello phayeth!(",) I guess, it's time for you to move on with your life. If it's over between the two of you then don't hold on because you might end up being hurt again. There are still many guys out there who are deserving of your love and who will truly love you as well. I may not know what you've been through with your ex-boyfriend but I can tell from your story that he is not worth a second time. Great day and God bless!(",)

I see your point. First of all, you have to verify first this "engagement" matter. You have to clarify it if he really has an affair to other girl as what you have stated above. I advised you to be vigilant and do not easily listen to some gossips which are not true anyway. Gossips can really devastate, ruin, or destruct the relationships of anyone else and that is the main reason why there is a misunderstanding between the two of you. On the other hand, after verifying this engagement thing, if it is not true, then there comes the forgiveness. It will be your own decision if you are going to forgive him and give him another chance or not. For me, if you would mind, maybe you should forgive him but, in terms of having an affair again with this guy, that would probably lie on you. You have to think twice or even thrice if he deserves to be loved again. If not, then there is no reason to go with him again. Always think that there are a lot of guys here in this world which can give you perfect happiness that you never felt from your ex-boyfriend and will trully and faithfully love you. I hope the best for you. Have a nice day!

Well my friend.. he just ask you that he wants to talk. Go on.. see him.. and talk to him.. u never know what he gonna tell you.. Meanwhile, find out is it true he have engaged. No harm talking to him. But.. if its true he already engaged.. just beware.. he might have some plan.. be smart.. show him that you are not a loser anymore. God Bless

i guess dont go back...........cos i feel the moment he let u and thought of somebody else.......then i guess he is not worth it......it should be arelation where u get a feeling tht he is incomplete without...............i am not saying tht everybody shld be 100% perfect but atleast a few percent..wat say dude.........