Is it wrong to stay with him?

I think you should stop and think about why you are attracted to the same types of men. You need some time for yourself to be by yourself. It's ok not to be in a relationship all the time. It's only been three months I hope you are not so attached to this person. Sounds like you keep falling into the same patterns over again and it will only result in the same behavior but different with people. You know the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over again but expecting different results. Slow down. What would you tell your best friend if she were in the same situation? Sometimes you have to step back and detach yourself from your life and become the observer instead of always the participant. Then you can see things from a different perspective. Take some time away from the relationship and try observing your life and see if you can find some answers as someone on the outside looking in. I would also recommend going to the library and checking out some books by Dr Wayne Dyer and Dr. Gary Zukoff. Their approach is on a spiritual level and you may not agree but I believe you will get something valuable out of it.

I can give advice if you really like him, stay with him.If you are not sure , saty with him a little longer and you will here it will all go.

Dear CaitBaby, I think that man need your help and you should agree for that. Take him to some doctor or rehab centre and be stay with him both physically and immotionally. He need care of a doctor and a GF at the same time.

Maybe you can help him out also, there are a lot of really good people out there that are addicts. The shame is when it gets to the point that it rules their entire life. Lets hope he does not get there. As long as he is really good to you and you are with him for the right reasons one day he may need your help to try to kick this addiction, ask yourself if you are in it for the long run, if not maybe go your seperate ways. Addiction never gets better only worse if the person does not want to stop and this will cause a lot more problems in your relationship.

I think you would have to think about what kind of impact your relationship has on his addiction. It may not be your job to get him straight, but if you're relationship with him sort of encourages him to use, maybe you ought to get out of it, for his sake.

It's really hard to make a decision. I think you need more time to understand each other, three months is too short to know each other.

No matter who he was, or what he was into, I would advise you to listen to the wisest person in your world. Yourself. We are all wise, if we listen. May sound trite, but our intuition is always right. Mine is one hundred percent of the time - yet I have yet to really listen. LOL. So that's my advice - listen to your own! Good luck and may this work out just as it should.

are u an enabler i definitely would kick him to the curb i have been with a couple of them and in awhile they get very abusive controlling and make u feel like u r not worth loving i would get rid of t\him he may be nice but is he worth getting into trouble would he bail u out or make u sit once he has u under his coommand your life is over he is definitely a loser i dont care that he is a nice person but that can change in a heartbeat and he could become some 1 u wish u never got involved with what is there to lose cant u find a guy who is better than that u never gave your age so i am guessing that u are young something better will come along u just got to wait it out it definitely will happen how do your friends feel about him are u thinking that he is cool well to me he is a loser and hecould only drag u down a road u dont want to go be careful what he is showing u is not love i would get away from him b4 u get into something u cant get out of please be careful he is not worth anything but trouble

in my opinion,you should help him chang the bad custom