i love is not that easy to say
By Yahane
@Yahane (7)
Philippines
August 25, 2007 11:24pm CST
It's just today, that i realize that saying I LOVE YOU to a partner is not that easy.LOVE is complex and has deeper meanings. You can feel the urge to see a person, but that doesn't mean u love a person, u can feel happiness when you're with that person but that doesn't mean u love that person,you can say I MISS U and I LIKE YOU, but it doesn't mean you love a person.
LOVE is a combination of emotions, accepting the person who she/he was,sacrifice,and standing beside that person no matter what.
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7 responses
@YahaneNauie (38)
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
Indeed, saying I LOVE YOU to your partner is not that easy, when u say I LOVE YOU to a person, u have to mean it, it's also necessary that it comes from the bottom of your heart. Try saying I LOVE YOU to a person you don't love, u feel empty and unhappy. Because, you're not only fooling her, but you are also fooling yourself.
@men82in (1268)
• India
27 Aug 07
Of course it is not easy to love and after love keeping upto their expectations and limits it is horrible. If failures also the happenings really horriblethe love is. Then the keeping up with the family love and duties ooh.. the horrible hardships due to love , but love is life what to do . Long live the love and affectionate lovers and family men and women.
@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
26 Aug 07
many time ago it was easy for me saying this I LOVE YOU but now not any more.it became so hard to me to say those sacre words.
@bluecactusblossom (36)
• United States
26 Aug 07
I think that love is probably hard to say (or admit to) up to a certain point. It had taken my boyfriend a while to finally say it out loud to me after he started feeling like he did love me and not just really like me. But I think that when you do know without a doubt that you do love someone that it really isn't (or shouldn't be) that hard to say simply because I really believe that love is the best thing you could ever freely give another person. I think of it this way...if it's someone you can see yourself with...well it could be love. Might not. If it's someone you can't see yourself without...well, that I'm willing to put money on that it's love. You can make up any excuses you want, but you can live without someone you don't truly love and yes I do believe that everyone needs someone (whether it be in a relationship scenario or not) and love is a big part of who we are as people. Call me lame, I'm just a hopeless romantic and I can't help but believe love is something as wonderful as in fairy tales and we should embrace it and share it without hesitation. That's just how I feel... =)
@Achaiel (5)
• India
26 Aug 07
You are right. Some people mistake love when they only like that person. But sometimes maybe you do love that person, but because you find it really hard to say i love you to that person, you stick with just being friends or just liking that person. So if you really love that person, you gotta be open with that person, Or you'll end up regretting it later. but yea, it gets kinda difficult sometimes.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
26 Aug 07
I have never had a problem saying "I love you" to a person I love. I have never understppd why it is so hard to tell people that you love them. I think it is hard when we may not trust people, but if I can not trust a person enough to tell that person that I love them, then I do not love them and won't tell them. It's not hard not to say it, nor is it hard to say it.