Best friend issue what do I do??

You have two choices: 1. always be the one to make the effort 2. move on I know what you mean though. I have been there and done that so many times due to constant moves. I got tired of always being the one to make the effort. With this last move, I stopped. I figured that if our friendship meant as much to them, as it did to me, then they would contact me eventually. If they didn't, I knew that I was not as important to them as they were to me. I then moved on. In today's world of IM and email, there is no reason for friends to lose touch. It simply shows laziness or lack of interest on that person's end. They no longer have the excuse of the expense of phone calls or the time it takes to write long newsy letters. It takes only a few minutes to IM someone or to write a fast email. Good luck with whatever decision you make!