what to do if you have feelings for someone you shouldn't have?

United States
October 26, 2006 4:33pm CST
have a friend that i have always had feelings for! what can i do to get rid of these thoughts!
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@irmafz (81)
• Pakistan
3 Jan 07
Well if you have feelings for some particular some1... why not go and say to that person ?? like mayb he would have the same feelings for u ..or mayb they would develop overtime for u .. u neva know .. but dont forget to tell the person u like .. mayb if u keep on waiting it would get too late .. if hes like committed to some1 else then i suggest you just move on .. try to make new friends ... trp to keep urself bz and engaged most of the times so that u dont have time to think abt that guy .. whenever feelings and thoughts come for him just ignore them .. try keeping ur mind deviated .. whenever u meet him .. just try taking him as any other frnd u have ..keep tellng ur self that hes for some1 else and u wud get ur mr rite ..the one made for u actually..try to avoid his thoughts and all and gradually you would find ur self less & less attracted to him .. best of luck (:
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• United States
3 Jan 07
thanks so much for your openness. this is very helpful info for someone not in my position already... feelings have been there for a very long time, as has the friendship and neither is going away just getting stronger over time.