When do you know when you're ready to get married?
By greikos
@greikos (19)
Philippines
August 27, 2007 7:43pm CST
I'm 20yrs old and I really want to get married already before I reach the age of 25. Am I too young to get married? what's the marrying age?How do you know if you're ready?besides stability wise is intuition enough and the feeling of being so in love enough reason to tie the knot?
5 responses
@michecu (637)
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
When you feel you're ready to marry that's when you do it. At least give it a lot of thought before jumping into it because it's not easy to be married. I still single and I'm 30...all I can say is that when you're 30, you desire to marry before a certain age but I've gone through that phase and now i have a different perspective...it's not actually in the age but more on the reasons for marrying... and you have to be careful still. :)
@cheska26 (34)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
being ready for responsibility that is bigger than you. i guess. marriage is just black and white. its a contract that you sign to ensure that you are committed as in really committed. if no one objects to your idea of marrying her and you have thought of this over and over and you feel like she's the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with, then do it. there' always divorce as an option, then again it isn't. hey, just do it...;p
@Malyck (3425)
• Australia
28 Aug 07
I definitely believe that it is different for everyone.
Personally, I do not plan to get married, marriage is not something that I see as important to show true commitment in a relationship, but that is just me.
I think it's definitely to do with intuition. Even though you are young, you still know who you love, your own feelings and all of that.
If you feel it's time to do so, and your partner is also ready, then it is time, just make sure to take it delicately and really think about spending the rest of your lives together, if that's what marriage means to you.
=D best of luck.
@Maggie5456 (17)
• Hong Kong
28 Aug 07
Hello, i think just you love her and you have responsibility, get married or not ,it doesn`t matter! although got married many years ,more poeple choose divorce.