Would you allow another woman in your home?
By MissCeeCee
@MissCeeCee (27)
United States
August 27, 2007 10:28pm CST
Question to married women: Would you allow another woman into your home? If your husband had a female friend--not even a cute one--and she had nowhere to go, would you allow her to stay in your home for a few months? Personally, I'd never do this. The only woman that will ever live in my home is me. I'm the queen and no other woman will ever be allowed to live here.
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
28 Aug 07
It would depend on who the person is and how I felt about that person. I can not close the door on someone in need of help however if it's some low life then the answer is no but if it's someone trying to make it in this hard world then yes I would help. I never know when or if I'll ever be in that situation. God forbid but we all never know.
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@carolscash (9492)
• United States
28 Aug 07
I am sure that I would. I trust my husband and I know that he loves me and I don't think I would have anything to worry about. Plus, I have a male friend who has had some marital problems in the past and my husband allowed him to live with us for several months.
@susanna80 (12)
• United States
28 Aug 07
Absolutely not!! That is opening the door wide for trouble with a capital T.
@prily9 (568)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 07
definately no. let another woman stay with you just like you invite the big trouble. for sure I will have disagreement with her. and the worst if something happen between that woman and my husband. big nightmare. better help her to find a place to stay. keep peace stay from trouble.
@vinzen (1020)
• India
28 Aug 07
Yes i totally agree with you, and i think most women will say the same. But each person is different and each one have their own views for this too.
I trust my husband and fmaily firstly, and if hes got this friend, i would surely be her friend as well, as he would not make friends without my knowledge as hes a very straight forward, simple, loving family man. And if hes brought this woman into my home, it would be for a reason, maybe shes homeless or is waiting for her husbands or families return or cannot go else where, or whatever the reason maybe, i would firstly discuss things with my huband, and see how best we can fit her into our house, maybe give her a separate room in the out house etc, it all depends. Incase my sixth senes tells me there is going to be any problems, i dont think i will wait twice to talk to my husband and clear my doubts and knowing him, hed listen and wed request her to stay for a few days and there after make her own arangements and leave.
I dont think we would keep her for that long, as its an unknonw person who if they live for that long a time, become too familiar with people and things which can be dangerous for all. It would depend fully on what circumstances made my husband bring her home. We would weigh that out and then finalise the things.