What makes first ''LOVE'' memorable?

@jackxav (660)
Philippines
August 27, 2007 10:35pm CST
For me,its a persons first chance to discover more of her or him self through another person.Its the first chance you realize that when you impart yourself to the person you love,you grow more.''You? what makes your first love memorable?
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@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 07
First love is one thing that nobody can forget about it. You surely will remember it maybe even just a bit of all the moments you have experienced. As for me it the beginning of one knowing and feeling about loving and sharing, this is the time when you really feel that there is someone really made for you. At times you might think you the king or queen.. Its the new kind exploration, its feelings and its full of passion. I really remember how wonderful my first love is.. but it doesn't last.. hahaha like others. But i have to admit it its really truly beautiful and full of memories.
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@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
yes philxav...we really never forget first love because it consists of a series of firsts:it's the first time we really make love,it's the first time we stop playing at being adults and really become one,it's the first time we connect and open up emotionally and finally,it's the first time we experience the highs and lows of being in love
@ranitam22 (1146)
• United States
28 Aug 07
I know my first love was memorable because everything was fresh and new and it was a first for everything. You both can't seem to get enough of eachother whether talking on the phone or being around eachother all the time. All this togetherness time brings lots of memories. I know my first was great, I had actually spoke to him a few years after we broke up, but I didn't think we needed to get back together. First loves are great if they are the right ones. Mine was perfect. Some can be the wrong ones and you end of with bad memories and it affects your relationships from then on.
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
Me too ranitam,i have my first love too but as what u said,love are great if the are the right one for you.We also broke up.U know i learn to make that relationship better and i become more experienced for the next.thank you so much ranitam.As wat they say,''FIRST LOVE NEVER DIE..''
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• Malaysia
5 Oct 07
To me, what makes first love memorable is because it was my first experience of being loved by somebody who is out of my family. The first experienced is always thrilling, as anything else in this world goes the same. The first driving experience, the first going to school experience, all that sticks forever in our hearts because it was the first time. I think that's what makes my first love memorable.
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
6 Oct 07
Yes i do agree withyou ladysurvivor,all first must be memorable for us.thanks and enjoy..be happy always.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
for me, it has to be the way i felt. first love is very different from the succeeding ones since its the first time we experienced it. and also, its the first time we did stupid things just for the sake of one person who we think is special. its the first time we felt love, needless to say that we are still innocent on how love goes. its the first time we will discover it. with the succeeding ones, we already have an idea and we'll be more cautious and careful, thus, we might not do the things we did before. ^__^
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
ohh thank you for sharing us your thoughts and words secret bear,i really appreciate it.may the god bless you always! enjoyy....
@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 07
Mostly first love.. is very truly interesting...Its the beginning of one to share his or feelings to the other. Its the most sweetest thing cost everything you experience is something new and you begin to feel it. Surely.. anyone wont forget his or her first love.. you'll never forget it.
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
yes, indeed, it was memorable in the sense that in our four years of togetherness, (high school sweethearts) I never gave him a chance to kiss me on my lips, it was really the old traditioanal way, he got to hold my hands only during high school gatherings. And another thing, he was the only guy who cried when I bid goodbye for good
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
Hmmmm wat a nice experience u have in ur young years...thank you so much for responding.Good luck and may god bless u...
@angie05 (23)
• Northern Mariana Islands
28 Aug 07
The thing that made my first love memorable was that it was my first with everything. He was my first LOVE and everything else, you name it he was my first. We've been together for 13 years now, we start of with everything being so perfect. Every love is not always perfect but you will still find your way back to make it happen. Now the love between us is getting stronger and stronger everyday. Until now my first love is still memorable for him being around until now.
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
Wow! wat a nice relationships u hve!keep it up ! and thank u so much for sharing ur story
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
First love relationship memories means first kiss, first love, first heartache, first sacrifice, first everything, that's why its very memorable for each one of us. =)
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
Yeah i do agree with you bluishrose..thank for your comments.
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
30 Aug 07
My first love has been over a long time, I long to forget his appearance, together things that happened to have almost forgotten it, does not seem to think carefully about what should commemorate things, perhaps because of my personality reasons, I would not like others like it as a valuable memory in mind. but efforts to forget it, perhaps the only way not to feel sad.
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
You have a point there xiuluoelly.thank you so much for sharing us.good luck.
@sumitsonu (598)
• India
8 Oct 07
for me first love is memorable because it transforms you , it brings the first change in you, you are no longer the person you used to be, you now feel for someone, care for someone, get hurt , and change your style, behaviour, attitudes everything for the sake of that one person .. And lastly first love is unforgettable because it is the first love , you can love many people after that but the first love remains forever to that one person, no body can take that away from him/her
• China
3 Sep 07
First love?I can't forget it.Sometimes I miss her in my dreams.I can't help missing her,although I really want to forget the time that she and I were loving.Because I love my present lover,so...If I always miss her,my first love,I will feel that it's very unfair to her,my present love,so I want to forget my first love,all the time she and I stayed toghter,although it is very sweet.
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
You're right,but then theres nothing wrong to think about here.Its just normal for us to think our past love.Good luck and may god bless u...thanks also for responding wangxiaozhi.
• Philippines
6 Oct 07
For me, first love teaches you how to be really in love. It teaches you lessons you won't forget. Not lessons in classes but lessons in life. It teaches you to sacrifice for the one you love and it strengthens your will to do good, to care for that person, to develop your attitude and your faith to the Lord too. First love is when you'll learn the things you've never thought you won't learn... That's why it's called first.