For Those Who Have Mothers They Love

You need to know that you are doing what you can at this time to make the best of your situation. Don't get burned out and ask for help from your other family if possible, even the younger ones. They all need to know what you are going thru and try to help as you should not be taking on so much by yourself. You sound like you love your mother very much but you need to take care of yourself also. Just being there for your mother is a great relief for her. I'm in a similar situation and I'm lucky I have my brother and sister-in-law who help when they can, but most of all they listen when I'm down. I also have friends that watch my back. I'm in debt also, but know it will get paid eventually and will be worth it as long as my mother is happy and well taken care of while she is still with us. I'm taking care of my mother who can't remember how mean she was to me when I was a child as I could never compare to my sister in her eyes. Well, guess what, my sister refuses to do much if anything at all now for my mother. I could be nasty to my mother, but I could not live with myself. It's strange how things happen to work out and your situation will work out also, have faith.