will u give ur personal details to someone u met on the internet?
By Frozen2ice
@Frozen2ice (152)
India
August 28, 2007 6:51am CST
hi friends
with so many people using the internet these days, i was wondering how many of us woulnt mind posting it on some web site or just giving it to someone we met through the internet.
personally , i wont give my personal info like my address and phone number to anyone unless i trust him or her, and as everyone will agree, most of them are not trust worthy. pls let me know wat you guys feel about this.
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16 responses
@dimaks (786)
• Japan
28 Aug 07
in these times of all sorts of cyber crime and stuff, you don't want anybody you just met, or somebody you don't really know in person to gather critical information about yourself. better be safe than sorry. but then there are also cases that online acquaintances can become a bridge for a long and lasting friendship. but then, it is up to you to take the risk.
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@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
28 Aug 07
thanks a lot for your response. tell me onething, have you ever met a person whom you found trustworthy on internet and shared your personal informations with him?? pls let me know. thanx again
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@iceprince7 (108)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
I will not give my personal info to anyone on the net except hes my friends or relatives. I dont trust people on net. Im just being a smart surfer i think.
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
28 Aug 07
well not all who use the internet will fall in that category.... some r worth trusting.... its abt choosing such persons i feel.
anyway, i respect ur personal opinion. thanks a lot for ur response.
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@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
29 Aug 07
ya...thats the way to go! but tell me one thing, how will u know if a person is trustworthy or not? hv u found one on the internet with whom u shared ur personal info??
@vani24 (783)
• India
29 Aug 07
yaa i met one guy whom i have been talking since 4 years, i met him during my studying days, and now i am working and i hope it will continue forever like this. You know in all these 4 yrs i met him personally only once. he treats me as his own sister and i am really thankful god that he introduced me to such a warm and caring person, what about you??
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
28 Aug 07
I won't give my personal details to someone I met online.I won't trust them/his/her.Because my personal info is important to me so I can't believe what will happen when the strangers know my personal info.
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
29 Aug 07
thanks for ur response
its another thing that not all u find on the internet are cheaters.... some r trustworthy as well.
anyway, i respect ur outlook. thanks dear
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
29 Aug 07
thanks for ur response
its another thing that not all u find on the internet are cheaters.... some r trustworthy as well.
anyway, i respect ur outlook. thanks dear
@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
i don't give personal details on internet unless i trust them..it takes me so long before i trust someone my personal info..they should prove to me they are trust worthy before i give out even my real name..i use lots of screen names on internet..yahoo..msn..and almost all of sites you can think off..its not just that easy to trust on internet.
@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
yes i did..but it took him so hard to get the details..he is my boyfriend for 2 years and going now..took him almost a year before he get to know the real details..
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
28 Aug 07
hey... thats cool!! wish u real happy time with ur boyfriend. tk cr
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
28 Aug 07
thanks for your response... tell me onething, have u ever found such a trustworthy guy with whom u shared all ur details in all these years of internet experience ? pls let me knw.tk cr
@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
i dont think i would do that too. Not unless of course i trusted the person whom i had given my personal info. You know at the net their are a lot of untrust worthy indiviual at the net and Aside from that i needed a little privacy for myself and im thinking posting my personal information at the net will absolutely affect that privacy i needed!
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
28 Aug 07
hi sheen...
you are absolutely right, its better to be cautious rather at the beginning than being sorry at the end.
another side of the story is that a very good friend of mine got married to a guy whom,she met through the internet an year back and both r staying happily... and she says this guy is the best thing that ever happend to her!
its upto us to choose the trust worthy one. hw wud u define such a trust worthy individual? think i got u with this one... tough question?? pls let me know....
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@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
yeah pretty tough question, and i think my nose are bleeding now coz i dont know how to answer that one. hahhahaah!!! Well i guess little by little as u get acquinted you will just feel who's sincere from who is not.
But of course feelings are not reliable but somehow sure it helps...:)What is more important is that u are true to them and if they are not its their lose not urs! got it buddy? would u agree to that? :)
@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
untrustworthy person are someone who just uses another for their personal advantage. A deceiver and someone who seems so nice and devilish inside...hehehehe. someone who is wearing wearing a mask. In short someone who is untrue.
I dont really know how to define it because, so far in my experienced at the net and in real life i have never been decieved by anyone or that was just i thought...
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
I would just atleast give them my name, but not my complete name. My age, I think I would if I was asked. But other than that, I would keep my personal information.
As you've said, there are lots of people who uses the net so I think it would be better if we atleast give ourselves some privacy. many would like to use the net by fooling others, making modus-operandi's by using other people's personal information. So to keep ourselves away from these things, it's better to always be careful in dealing with people online.
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
28 Aug 07
thanks a lot for your response.... sure thats the way forward. tk cr
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
23 Oct 07
entirely agree with you that posting private information on a public platform cannot be said to be a very healthy practice. There should be dividing line between making a private details public. You cannot go beyond an extent.
I certainly hesistate to share my private life on a public platform. I see some of the disussions are started in such a manner that you are asked to divulge about your personal and private details. And while asking, they divlulge their very private details without any inhibition. I wonder what prompts the host to start such a discussions. If I have to answer such discussions, I keep my response restricted and try not to divulge more details. I do not feel comfortable divulging each and every details of my very private life. I do not press anyone here to divulge their private details in discussions.
If someone reveals too much and if he or she is close, I would politely advice him/her that not to divulge such and such details so as not to face any problems in future.
@daveisdavid (878)
• Singapore
29 Aug 07
I'll not reveal my personal information to those whom I don't trust.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
23 Oct 07
Same here, I would not give everything about me if I just met someone thru internet or thru some information. Not to deceive people but just for protection. Although sometime, I am wondering, why I have lots of emails on my mail and they came to know my number. So if they know my number it is possible that they knew about me. Can we say that these email provider and maybe also the mylot the source of information.
@nakedshadow0921 (139)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
i wont give my personal details unless he/she gained my trust and i have talking to that person several tyms..
@Frozen2ice (152)
• India
28 Aug 07
thanx oneoneo.... its all abt choosing the right guys i feel!
bdw, how wud u define such a trustworthy person?? hv u ever found one such trustworthy in the internet with whom u shared ur details?
@avzz08 (103)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
personally, I dont want to give away my personal info to someone I barely know..
It's just so scary now-a-days. Knowing that there are tons or psychos out there who are just waiting for their next victims!
hahaha.. goodluck to those who tend to give all their info! ~_^
@farazkh1 (1153)
• Pakistan
28 Aug 07
I wont unless it will be necessery to give my person info to the person or a website while registering myself with otherwise its too dangerous and risky to leak out your personal information over the internet ......but sometimes we need to sacrifice a little with the risk when there is obligations .........
@thefortunes (2367)
• Netherlands
28 Aug 07
Hi Frozen2ice,
It depends really. While I had a business online the address and contact details were there for everyone to see and take and I have never had any problem with it ;) To friends that i make online - goes the same - I have never had any problems -Thanks God for that too, but I listen very closely to my intuition and if the inner bells remains quit I know - all will be fine ;)